19 dpo and no af

[Crazy4Baby]

I am so confused right now - I am currently 19 dpo and on CD 39, there is no sign of af and a hpt on 17 dpo was a BFN.
I have no signs of pregnancy or af apart from little sore boobs.

I used a clearblue digi opk which came up with a smiley on cd 20 evening and on afternoon of cd21 but by the evening of cd21 it had gone. Therefore I think I did ovulate!!!

Yesterday I had what seemed like ovulation pains AGAIN, sharp pains on my right side, can I miss a period and ovulate again so soon?

Just hoping I have a late BFP - still thinking POSITIVE

Anybody in similar position

 

[cindylouwho]

I am in the EXACT same boat! 20dpo (I have been temping so I know for sure), CD45 (yikes), no AF, and BFN on 18dpo.

I will say though - I don't trust OPKs at ALL anymore. When I started temping this cycle, I realized that I was having delayed ovulation again and again. If I had been going just based on OPKs, it would have looked like I ovulated..... twice! LOL. I got 2 positive OPKs, lots of cervical mucus, and then went on to not ovulate. I finally did ovulate about a week later, but had stopped OPKs by that point because I was fed up with them!

So if you turn out not to be pregnant, I would definitely suggest reading Taking Charge of Your Fertility and starting to chart your BBT.

 

[Crazy4Baby]

Thanks CindyLou, this is our first month of ttc so I will probably start charting next cycle - if it ever comes!!!
I just came off the pill a couple of months ago and I have heard that that can muck things up. I have always had irregular periods prior to starting the pill and I really dont want to go back to not knowing when to expect af.