So my 2 and a half year old has well and truly hit the terrible twos. Shes having prolonged screaming rages over everything from not having the right cereal available, leaving play dates, having to go to bed etc. Shes also become very clingy with me and totally rejecting of OH.
Were struggling with bedtime in particular. For the last two years, OH stays in the bedroom whilst she goes to sleep and I stay with 5 year old DS. Neither kids self settle but its not usually too much of a problem. DS only takes about 15 minutes.
However, now DDs rejection of OH has hit bedtime. She wants me to stay with her but so does DS. DS is also very clingy with me and is resentful of his sister. Both of them clash constantly over everything which is incredibly exhausting.
Tonight, shes gone into a rage that she cant have me and has been hitting, biting, rolling around the bedroom, trying to get out etc. Shes kept DS awake but thankfully hes now gone to sleep.
I could go into her bedroom now and take over but Im worried that this is giving into her and shell think that if she keeps resisting long enough, Ill go into her. How do we deal with this?!!
Were struggling with bedtime in particular. For the last two years, OH stays in the bedroom whilst she goes to sleep and I stay with 5 year old DS. Neither kids self settle but its not usually too much of a problem. DS only takes about 15 minutes.
However, now DDs rejection of OH has hit bedtime. She wants me to stay with her but so does DS. DS is also very clingy with me and is resentful of his sister. Both of them clash constantly over everything which is incredibly exhausting.
Tonight, shes gone into a rage that she cant have me and has been hitting, biting, rolling around the bedroom, trying to get out etc. Shes kept DS awake but thankfully hes now gone to sleep.
I could go into her bedroom now and take over but Im worried that this is giving into her and shell think that if she keeps resisting long enough, Ill go into her. How do we deal with this?!!