2WW questions(tmi) thoughts?!

[Mommyof12011]

Today I am 6dpo and have been having twinges and sharp pains since 3-4dpo but they are gone now. Was having sore and full bbs but not tonight. Also my husband and I dtd today and I orgasim (sorry tmi but I'm desperate for answers) could this have caused the egg to not implant?! I hope not!!!!! Thoughts?

 

[JLM73]

Nope you are fine.
I read a fertility specialist Q&A about the same thing and she strongly recommended orgasms during the TWW as they actually help implant by nearly tripling the blood flow to the uterus!
The only time it is not recommended is immed after IVF, and that is because when they insert the embryo(s) your cervix is still open, not due to any crushing.
There is very little space to begin with in the non preg uterus. I think it can only hold like a tablespoon of liquid?? Also the embryo is like microscopic, so even uterine contraction doesn't cause the "space" the embryo is in the affect something that small- and by the time fertile window is gone and embryo goes to implant (6-12dpo) your cervix should be fairly closed ( even if not they have proven that embryo exposure to semen actually HELPS implant
No worries.
I actually did that last cycle - nearly an O a day for sure the first week after O to keep blood flow increased. I did get a bfp but it turned out a chemical( I think my progest is low).
This cycle I did and orgasm or 2 per day the first 5-6 days after O, but greatly slacked since then, and I'm on progesterone now.
Hoping it helped grow a bean!
FX for you and

 

[Mommyof12011]

Thank you so much! Definalty makes me feel better! Hoping for a sticky bean and a bfp in a few days!!

 

[gigimom]

I wish you great luck mommyof12011!!
I'm so desperate for answers. ..I ov'd on 9\
/23/15..... bd'd all week......and now at 9dpo.... I'm nauseous. .aggravated and tired.....I have horrible cramping.....but no other signs....should I be testing? ?

 

[Mommyof12011]

You should test today and if bfn wait a few more days. I tested this morning at 8 dpo and bfn

 

[JLM73]

No worries mommy that is considered the earliest bfp possible and very rare.
The most common implant day is 9dpo so that = 11-12 dpo for a realistic bfp, and if late implant, further than that.
Just give it a few more days- trust me I have been testing since 8dpo and it's ALOT of bfns to see lol

 

[nnaime]

FX keep us updated when you test!

 

[JLM73]

I posted my latest pics here:https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/t...48-testers-counting-come-october-bfps-55.html

 

[Mommyof12011]

I tested today with frer and bfn. Had bad cramping in back and lower stomach all night and have been extremely nauseated with upset stomach and heartburn. My heart tells me in out but my head keeps telling me to test.

 

[Mommyof12011]

Also having sore ab muscles and there's not a chance in Haiti iv worked out lately lol! Anyone else have this ?

 

[nnaime]

Also having sore ab muscles and there's not a chance in Haiti iv worked out lately lol! Anyone else have this ?

Oh yeah, I def have sore Abs only tender to the touch though