3 failed IUIs. How do you cope?

Thanks everyone!

Yes, I have to go back on Weds for another beta.

Right now I'm at 71.5 No clue what that even means, but she said it was good? Hahahahaha.

Also, I definitely told the nurse that called her that I loved her. Over and over. Ahhh well, what can ya do, I was in the moment!
 
Wow, I think that number is really good. I read somewhere that anything over 25 or 50, errr don't quote me is good!!
 
Yup sounds good! I think you want to see that number doubling every 48 hrs!!
 
Yeah I started to google HcG #'s and just said--forget it, I'm going to let myself enjoy just knowing it's positive for now and take what comes as it comes!!

But I do my know my friend that had twins from the same doctor I go to had a beta at 65 and had a great pregnancy, so that's about all I know for now and I think that is good! :)

Thanks, everyone!
 
Sunshine- I saw you offered ttcbaby a list of some things you made etc. if you have time I'd love one too! <3 I don't start anything until very end of march so there's no rush! :)

Enjoy that baby!!
 
YYYYYAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :happydance:

So thrilled for you! Do you feel any different?
 
OMG OMG OMG....I am seriously in tears right now!!!!! I am jumping up and down and can hardly type! Sooooooooo happy this worked for you hun it give me so much inspiration! So I have never gotten this far so I must ask....whats the next step?

Ok so yeah, send of those recipes to me and BMA when you get a chance!
 
hey BMA and TTC! Thanks!

Do you want me to post the stuff I ate here or do you want to start a separate thread?? I'm open to anything, definitely NOT getting any work done today so I will do this for you gals right away!

Of course I can't say for sure whether or not everything I ate and drank helped me get this BFP and it's still early days so while I am still elated I know anything can happen, but I did get a positive--so that's worth something I suppose!

Let me know where you want the info and I will get to it right away.

Pink- I DO feel different, although I was certain it was the side effects from the progesterone so I didn't want to read into it. But my boobs are a bit sore and both yesterday and today I woke up feeling a bit nauseous. I have also been exhausted, but I think that is more from me thinking and thinking and thinking! And a few times over the past week I had weird darting pains in my abdomen, but I didnt want to look into that either as with my 4 IUIS I always thought I had signs and I didnt. But, this time, looks like they were real!!!!
 
Im fine right here if everyone else is....also, did you continue to eat that way through the tww? How are you eating now...any symptoms?

Sashimi - you said you had a rough weekend...is everything ok?
 
Im fine right here if everyone else is....also, did you continue to eat that way through the tww? How are you eating now...any symptoms?

Sashimi - you said you had a rough weekend...is everything ok?

TTC- I did pretty much eat the same all through the 2ww as well.....although between retrieval and transfer ( when there was "nothing" in there yet ) I did treat myself to two glasses of wine one night when out for dinner with the hubby. I will put that all in my details, which I will post here.

yes Sash-- I saw that you had a rough weekend as well? Are you okay?
 
I got a BFP on a TWW of chips and Gatorade. My doctor recommended eating lots of salt to shrink bloating and help keep OHSS away!! I has planned to eat healthy but it didn't work out that way. I'm sure eating well helps though!!

TTC I wrote this in my journal, but I woke up on Saturday with a few itchy red bumps on my back. We are doing home renos and I'm terrified its brought some sort of bugs into our home. We turned the house upside down cleaning and disinfecting. Found no signs if bugs, but I typically googled every possible cause of the bites or bumps and I've turned myself into a paranoid wreck!
 
Also I called my hospital to see if I should be concerned and the OB on call dismissed me as if I were crazy!
 
I'm fine! Just really creeped out! I'm overly cautious with the baby coming in about 60 days!!!
 
Sunshine congrats, so happy for you and thank you for sharing your story with us! You've been an inspiration and support, never thought I would say I am now excited and looking forward to ivf if this iui did not work.
 
Oh no sashimi...that would freak me out also. I will check out your journal.
 
This is really long! I’m sorry!!

Ok, some of the ladies on this thread requested that I post the food I ate during my IVF process. I created this plan based on what I learned in my research – internet/other women that underwent IVF, things my acupuncturist told me, and nutrition info I had from being a track runner in college ( my coach had a strict nutrition program for us to follow and we were all super healthy and in great shape! )

I’ll never know if this helped or this IVF cycle was just always meant to be the “lucky” one ( and of course, it’s still early days for me, so time will tell with this BFP ) but I figured why not just eat as best as can during all of this in case there is any chance it will help!

About a month before I started BCP or Lupron or anything I began transitioning my diet into a super high protein, veggie/fruit heavy plan and continued to eat this way all throughout every step of the process. I had heard the sooner you can change your diet before IVF, the better. I will give examples of every meal/ snack so you guys can see….

Also, I cut out my beloved coffee every morning ( and afternoon! I drank a lot of coffee!! ) and really cut back on drinking wine during BCP, and once I started stimming I had no wine at all, except one night, two nights before transfer when DH and I went out to dinner!!! We figured---there were no eggs in there at all, so why not? And I’m glad I did!!

Lastly—I POUNDED water, non-stop hydration, and I think that really helped too. I literally focused on drinking at least 4 liters a day. One liter before work, two at work, and one when I got home.

Morning:
As soon as I woke up I had a liter of water next to my bed and I would drink it as I got ready around the house…..I had it with me while I dried my hair, got dressed, etc and tried to finish a whole liter before I left for the day. My acu said there is a Chinese belief that water first thing in the morning helps increase fertility. My trusty Nalgene bottle never left my side. Bonus was I felt really great from all the water!

Breakfast: Smoothie! Always a smoothie! I can honestly say from January 1st through today I haven’t had anything else for bfast but this power smoothie I made.

Recipe: In a blender throw 5 heaping spoonfuls of Light Vanilla Yogurt ( I used Dannon lite and fit ). On top of that add a full cup of fruit. I rotated by the week—strawberries are packed with vitamin C, blueberries have great antioxidants, peaches are good for vitamin D, etc, etc. Basically add whatever fruit sounds good to you! I bought them in the frozen section and would thaw one cup overnight in the fridge. So, yogurt, fruit, then 4 spoonfuls of dry, steel cut oatmeal. The oatmeal has tons of fiber and protein and will help keep you full and help your eggs grow! After the oats I added one spoonful of flax seeds ( more protein! ) and then topped it off with 2 more spoonfuls of yogurt. The calcium, vitamins, protein, and fiber in this thing is amazing—and it tastes so good too! ! Throw 2 ice cubes in there and blend it all up and enjoy!!

Morning Snack: cheese stick and a piece of fruit ( either an apple or 2 small clementines )

Lunch: Large Salad made with Spinach and Mixed greens. Topped with 2 hard boiled eggs ( I used mostly whites and threw out a yolk and a half when I broke them up ), ¼ of chopped red pepper, cucumber, carrots, shredded cheese, and whatever other veggies I had around.

Afternoon snack: veggies ( a cup of carrots, broccoli, or celery or whatever I wanted ) with hummus

Dinner: I really only had a few meals that I rotated between while I was doing this process, and most of them involved combos of either grilled or baked (organic ) chicken with a small serving of strach ( baked potato/ rice/ wheat pasta ) and veggies. I also used a lot of ground turkey ( instead of beef ) and made things with that—white turkey chili, tacos , etc.

I ate a LOT of brown rice, quinoa, and red/black beans. ( My acu told me try to eat RED foods and foods with deep color as they help your lining ) My favorite combo is to cook up some brown rice and quinoa and then throw in a can of red or black beans. Then throw in a few spoonfuls of salsa, a handful of shredded cheddar—and wrap that in a tortilla or eat on its own---it’s SOOOO delicious and an awesome source of every vitamin you need while stimming or in the 2ww!

I focused on eating organic as much as I could too, without going overboard. My acu said that the most important things to eat organic were lettuce, fruits, and meat---so those were the things I tried to get organic and not worry about the rest.

Per my doc I also took a prenatal every night and then after retrieval took a prenatal and baby aspirin ( which helps blood flow to the uterus ).
Again, no clue if any of this helped, or if it was just my time ( finally! ) but I felt like I was in control during my cycle and really loved the chance to try to nourish myself as good as possible for the best possible chance.

I will probably keep up this healthy eating, at least for the beginning of my pregnancy--but tonight me and DH are going out to dinner and I am eating a BIG FAT JUICY BURGER! :)
 
OMG OMG OMG....I am seriously in tears right now!!!!! I am jumping up and down and can hardly type! Sooooooooo happy this worked for you hun it give me so much inspiration! So I have never gotten this far so I must ask....whats the next step?

Ok so yeah, send of those recipes to me and BMA when you get a chance!

TTC- I forgot to answer this question....next step is I go back this Wednesday and they check my level again and want to see my beta # double to know things are carrying on in there properly :) So since I'm at 71.5 right now they want to see around 140 or higher on Weds. I think I go back every few days for a while and then eventually, if everything is good, I get released to my real OBGYN.
 
Sunshine your post has given me a mega craving for a spinach salad! I did 4 betas in total and one of them didn't quite double but then I read that it's okay if it doubles every 3 days. Doctor always said it looked good and I would be so anxious for each beta call. The first 12 weeks were a scary time for me and I'd get nervous when I didn't have any pregnancy symptoms. I've never had a lot and I think that's just the type of pregnancy I am having.

I'm so glad this thread has been inspiring to so many women. Like what JLH wrote, there are quite a few ladies and that same place between failed IUIs and the next step. It's a tough spot to be in and I'm so glad there has been this level of support!!
 
This thread has been a GODSEND!! And Sashimi--many, many thanks to you for supporting us here while you were pregnant!! Some would have left the forum but your happy ending inspired me to keep going!! Thank you! I swear it made all the difference in this cycle--I never had this kind of support any other cycle!!

I am nervous about the betas but I'm just going to not worry about it and take it one day at a time. I am also a worrier, but I feel everything will work out :)
 

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