my 3yr old dd has been telling me it hurts to pee. she has started holding it until she can't anymore and some times ends up wetting herself. when i looked i did notice her "girl parts" are red i've tried using diaper cream to see if that helps (she's potty trained so i don't think it's diaper rash) and it doesn't get any better. i was wondering if anyone has dealt with this before and if so what was wrong. i'm going to take her to the dr saturday but i don't think she's going to like having her "girl parts" looked at by someone she hardly knows.