3rd Trimester begins! I'm scared!

[misspeach24]

Woaw! Cant believe I'm approaching the 3rd Trimester already!

Halfway mark didnt seem so long ago!

Because of the lack of support I have here in Netherlands, I've decided to go back to Scotland for the birth. I feel scared because I will have to leave my boyfriend and my home here with him, and live with my mum for a while Its not supposed to work out like this, but now its the only way if he wont co-operate. He hasnt so far showed any interest in the pregnancy or baby, he hasnt bought any stuff at all, I havent got a job so cant afford to buy anything either. I'm so nervous because I only have a few things so far, and looking at my list drives me crazy! Ive been so tied recently between countries thinking whats the best thing to do.
So its just got too much now! I know its best to go back. I just feel sad and like Ive failed because I have to go back ""home"" . I wished he could be there with me at the birth, its a shame...

 

[gemabee]

awww hun
sadly things dont always turn out the way we want them to... but everythin happens for a reason... so stay strong nd i hope things get better for u.
xx

 

[ClangerBabies]

Gl and i hope everything goes good. I dont know your circumstances so i can't really comment ;p ,xx

 

[Kaz1977]

Awww hun

Men sometimes find it difficult to connect with babies during pg - it is all a bit abstract for them. It is totally different for mum when you can feel your baby move and grow.

At this stage the most important thing is for you to put yourself and your baby first and your own family will be a massive help with this.

Hope it all works out for you

 

[misspeach24]

Thanks for your support

 

[RileysMummy]

Oh hun im so sorry but it sounds like you're doing the best thing for you and baby xx