So I found out on the weekend that my DH's younger brother was the 39th boy of the family and their sister was an anomaly (there are 3 boys and 1 girl) you would think we know this but I know very little about the family my DH's dad's side, they don't have any contact and it's just not discussed (I don't think they have fallen out or anything...just an odd family lol) anyway so yeah sounds like there's only been 1 girl for a few generations and she was the 4th child to my FIL and MIL!
So I guess I feel like there was never a chance....and never will be a chance. I kinda wish I knew before hand to prepare myself a bit more. I can't describe how much I love my boys, I really worried I wouldn't be able to bond with my second but that hasn't been an issue at all, it is purely the longing for a daughter.
One part of me feels we should try for one more, that if I don't I will regret it for the rest of my life (we would never have more than 3 so I know it would be our last) and even if it is a boy, I won't regret him will I? But then the other part of me feels it is pretty much guaranteed it would be a boy, and in all honesty I don't think I want to go through it all again if it wasn't a girl. I know that should answer my dilemma, we should only have a child if we want a third boy, but if it was that easy why can I not stop thinking about it?
So I guess I feel like there was never a chance....and never will be a chance. I kinda wish I knew before hand to prepare myself a bit more. I can't describe how much I love my boys, I really worried I wouldn't be able to bond with my second but that hasn't been an issue at all, it is purely the longing for a daughter.
One part of me feels we should try for one more, that if I don't I will regret it for the rest of my life (we would never have more than 3 so I know it would be our last) and even if it is a boy, I won't regret him will I? But then the other part of me feels it is pretty much guaranteed it would be a boy, and in all honesty I don't think I want to go through it all again if it wasn't a girl. I know that should answer my dilemma, we should only have a child if we want a third boy, but if it was that easy why can I not stop thinking about it?