6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[Mrs W 11]

I've got a cough and now a cold coming too Kelly, hate feeling ill and I get ill about half way through my tww every month

Hope you feel better soon xx

 

[kelly1973]

hey mrs w hope you get better soon that's harsh getting ill every month is there a reason for that?

 

[Nataliek]

I'm sick too, Kelly. Just came on yesterday I was up half the night with a fever and now I'm so congested and pounding head. Ugh, that's what I get for saying I havent been sick in awhile!

Still no AF for me but bfn this morning, ugh day 32 I wish it would just hurry up already I hate it.

 

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[Bug222]

another sickie here too... nasty head cold blerg!

 

[Nataliek]

Great bunch of sickos we are! I just ate half a tub of ice cream and it did make me feel slightly better lol

 

[kelly1973]

lol icecream is a good cure what a healthy lot we are ooooh two people with late af I hope we get some good news soon we need some in here for sure

 

[Mrs W 11]

I honestly don't know why I keep getting sick. I've had all the routine blood tests done at the drs. The only thing I can think is that I know when an egg is fertilised it gives off hormones to lower your immune system so it can implant. It's during my tww every month that I get ill so I do wonder if my egg is getting fertilised but not implanting for some reason. Not sure though.

I've got a cold as well now, bleughhhh. Just numbing with a glass of medicinal red wine!! Hope everyone feels better soon. Xx

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Bug222]

mmm ice cream would feel great on my throat right now... wonder if I can convince DH to make an ice cream run....

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Bug222]

haha i do!!!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Bug222]

lol- i would be hes not home

 

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[gebkel9]

Bug...I'm in the same boat, And I'm so sorry for your losses. I had a blighted ovum in Dec and a 9 week missed miscarriage at the end of April (after watching the heartbeat for three weeks on ultrasound). We have been trying since and I'm heartbroken at this point. Every month that I get a bfn gets harder and harder. I don't necessarily want to quit, but yet how do you guys know that we should keep trying and that it's worth it? I'm not super patient and this time seems to be taking so much longer and I'm not getting any younger (35). I'm not sure that I've quite healed from any of these losses. Am I just being a wuss??

 

[Bug222]

Not at all! I regularly ask myself if we should bother keeping on trying. As each month passes it gets harder and harder. I know I haven't completely emotionally healed from the losses and I doubt I will ever completely. Much love and healing thoughts to you xxx

 

[gebkel9]

Thanks Bug for the kind words. I feel like I can't really talk to friends and family about this sort of thing...or that they don't fully understand. So I am glad to have found a place where people "get it." I also work in an OB/GYN office and it's difficult to go to work most days. I love the people I work with, but it's a challenge. Lots of hugs to you. I hope we can both heal...somehow...and get the rainbow babies that we're trying so hard for.

 

[Smiler79]

Hi gebkel9 welcome to our post. Sorry you have ended up here but we are a lovely bunch.

I know what you mean about how long to try for and your age (I am 35 in December. I had two miscarriages in the space of 10 months but I am now 15 weeks pregnant with my 2nd rainbow (had1 miscarriage before I had my daughter who is 3.5). So please don't give up hope x x

As for me I seem to have caught the Lurgy too. Woken up with a stinking headache and cold which has also triggered off my eczema. Got to go to work in half an hr. I guess better this week than next week when hubby flies to japan for business for three weeks

 

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