Hey,
Fingers crossed he can recommend something i wouldnt say no to bc if it would regulate my cycles again, ive read they can give you a pill which brings af on. I poured my heart out to my oh last night and he was saying that i was so regular before and have been basically since my first cycle that its more than likely just hormones out of whack since surgery and hes right in a way so im going to keep positive until i see gp and see what he says i will mention the bc to him n see what he thinks. I think ive just been down and ive not really been able to see anything but doom and gloom but im determined to change that now. Xx so keep your fingers crossed i get somewhere lol!
Had a look at you opk's i didnt realise they progressed like that i thought they always just had two lines. Having seen them and my experience with opk the last one is def positive as the rule is, if the test line is darker or equal to the control line its positive. The last test the line is darker and thicker than control so if u have been bd up to it and on that date you stand a really gd chance. If your keeping a track aswell as the monitor i would note the day u gt tha result as ov and count from that day how long it takes you to get af then you can get a handle on your lp length. I would still bd everyother day but i think uve caught it, fingers crossed really hoping this is it for you. Also dont get down if its not to be this cycle you have a 20% chance each month if your bd at the right time and i really believe in that as it took me 6 months first time and then 5 months second. X
it's normal to be feeling like that, you've been through a lot and the fact your cycles aren't settling down is making things more difficult for you to be able to move on and see a light at the end of the tunnel.
I'd definitely ask lots of questions to your gp and just ask about a pill to bring on af, that may then kick start your cycles again and then hopefully they become regular. I'm crossing everything for you.
Are you gonna use opks when your af comes?
I've always read you should test around 2pm on opks, however the CBFM says fmu which of course is what I've done, and in the same sort of time band.
Well over the weekend we didn't bd as we had visitors each night so it was a little tricky and tbh I wasn't actually in the mood, was too tired from each busy day
but as soon as I got that last test I ran upstairs before work and bd lol, maybe too late tho..... Takes a while for the swimmers to get to where they gotta get I suppose.
I've never used opks so It was all so new to me anyway. Each test is labelled the cd, date and time of test so I know where I am and how long my cycles are, but I'll add to my calendar my O day and like you said I can see my lp. I can see why I miss O though as my ovulation app said I O'd the week before, so I'd usually go mad bd'ing that week then take it easy and less bd'ing, still some of course but not like every day.
Will soon see but I don't hold my hopes up, I think I've started to just see it never happens for me so I'll be expecting another bfn. Started to accept it now, but I guess that helps me not dying to test, although the monitor tells you when to take a pg test I think.....not 100% on that though I'll have to check
must've read it somewhere to have it in my head lol.
Xxx