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[tummymummy]

So im pregnant and i am devastated just dont know what to do. Please dont judge me i was using contraception but it failed, my baby is only 15 weeks xx
Justt need hugs

 

[sequeena]

 

[chezziepie]

awwww massive hugs and a nice cup of tea tea helps well decaf tea

 

[broodyc]

Aww we are all here for you!! Xx

 

[tummymummy]

thank you i dont think i can do it i really dont and i feel terrible for thinking it x

 

[RoxyRoo]

 

[broodyc]

thank you i dont think i can do it i really dont and i feel terrible for thinking it x

How has your OH taken it? Xx

 

[tummymummy]

He just looked horrified and hasnt said anything since. We are going to sit and talk tonight xxxxxx

 

[broodyc]

He just looked horrified and hasnt said anything since. We are going to sit and talk tonight xxxxxx

You are probably both in a state of shock. It makes sense for you both to sit down and talk it through rationally. We are all here to support you through his xx

 

[tummymummy]

He just looked horrified and hasnt said anything since. We are going to sit and talk tonight xxxxxx

You are probably both in a state of shock. It makes sense for you both to sit down and talk it through rationally. We are all here to support you through his xx

Thanks so much that just made me cry, i just wanted to be able to enjoy my lo i already have a 3 year old. thank you all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[feeble]

Wow, what a shock for you! I had a baby that was unplanned and we really were 'considering our options' so to speak... As it was, the thought grew and grew on us and we loved that little baby x

Give yourself time

 

[catfromaus]

Mine are 15 months apart- so a bigger gap, but two babies. When I found out I was pregnant, I felt the same way you are, but it is amazing what you are capable of doing. I know there are others on here with a year between their LOs, and you will survive. Sometimes it will be hard, and you will be exhausted, but to see your two babies together will melt your heart. My two adore each other already and it is lovely. This was not my plan, but I wouldn't change it xxx

 

[Poppy7]

you'll be fine. How lovely that your children will be so close in age and will grow up together.

 

[tummymummy]

Wow, what a shock for you! I had a baby that was unplanned and we really were 'considering our options' so to speak... As it was, the thought grew and grew on us and we loved that little baby x

Give yourself time

Thank you i do need time to think. I just had such a hard pregnancy with ivy-mae i was on crutches for 4 months and couldnt get out with my dd1 and she suffered so much just dont know how i could cope xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[3011busyyear]

Well congratulations, even if you don't feel like celebrating! I k ow things don't seem ideal now but fast forward to when your LO's can all play together. You have everything you need from LO and you can have back to back maternity leave

 

[bigbetty]

 

[Loui1001]

Hugs xx

 

[hellywelly]

Hugs hun xxxxx

 

[Lettuce]

give yourself time. Here if you need a chat. it'll all be ok. Xxx

 

[Rabbit11]

Hugs and just want you to know I'll be here for you, too. I know it's not much but I hope it helps a little.