9po tested bfn am i definatly out

[Baby Blessing]

I think i am 9po i tested this morning and got a bfn
Does this mean i am defo out this month I am so confused coz af has been a bit unpridictable lately coming between 25-29 days

Felt so sad this morning when i got bfn this is my 3rd month ttc now and everytime it gets harder to swallow

AF could come any time from tomorrow - Friday been getting lower back pain past 2 days so i think i must be out

Has anyone else tested 9/10 po and got a bfn then got a bfp later ?

Sorry for the rant just feel so fed up

 

[sianyld]

No ones out til AF arrives chick, it may to early 4 HCG levels!! I would def test again when AF is late!.GLxx

 

[hch]

your not out til the witch arrives hun! the best time to test is when AF is due 14dpo good luck x

 

[lulasmummy]

NOOOOO! i got a BFN on a clearblue at 10dpo....got my BFP on 16dpo. Believe me i did think iwas out...its not over hun!

 

[OneSmallStep]

You have to remember that implantation occurs between 6 and 12 DPO. You could test negative 9, 10, 11, 12 and then implant on 12 for a faint positive of BFN on the 13th but then a BFP on 14DPO - 18DPO. Personally my last BFP was 16DPO. Right now I'm 13DPO and no AF (was due today) and haven't gotten a clear BFP.

 

[Baby Blessing]

Thanks guys

I havent really had any symptoms just backache but feels like a milder for of af backache and just been exhusted last few days.

I think is gearing up her broom stick I can just feel it

I am getting so angry with myself coz I tell myself every month I am not gonna let it upset me so much but I cant help being devastated evetytime it dont happen.

Will I ever get a BFP

 

[OneSmallStep]

See, the key is to relax. When I was pregnant last time my early pregnancy symptoms felt JUST like AF was on her way. But she never came. Granted that ended in an MC thanks to the swine flu but you just never know. You just have to not stress your body out. Let it breathe and let it all work out from there!

 

[lulasmummy]

Its not over yet hun... i know how hard it is. But when you are preg it feels as tho af is on the way. You still have a great chance.

 

[Baby Blessing]

fx for all of us this month I am gonna try to be more positive until af arrives.

Just so hard when you want something so bad sometimes you just cant see it ever happening

 

[OneSmallStep]

That's how I feel, trust me. But at the same time I'm scared out of my mind ever since the MC.