A Bit Disappointed!

[KX]

Here goes...

Rebecca is 7 months, and I know she is still young but I wanted in a way another sibling. I want them close together, but then me and OH have debt, mortgage, car on finance, nursery fee's coming out our ears and NO Tax Credit Help grr. So we thought best wait. We were practising safe sex, but had unprotected at the end of lat AF. So this month periods were over 2 weeks late, so I was getting kind of excited thinking maybe I am. OH was excited too, but AF came 2day!!! I know it's for the best but I do feel disappointed. Maybe my hormones are awol.

I am not sure on when you are most fertile or anything, Rebecca was an "accident" the withdrawl method that didn't work! When r u most likely to conceive? is it b4 ur AF or after? Not that I am trying, Id just like to know...

Thanks in advance hunies .... :wink:

 

[beatlesbaby66]

((((((hugs)))))) to you honey...i will not get into the whole fertile part of cycle for you...many more people better at that than me on here, wobbs, arcane, hayley etc...you know who you are...
just wanted to give you my thoughts and prayers and i am going on the no time is a good time thing at the moment or we would never be ready.
hope you feel better soon too.

love bxox

 

[MrsE]

Ooh Ooh, join us in the TTC section.

What these girls don't know about TTC you can write on the back of a stamp

Come and join us in charting it gives you a good idea of when you're about to / have ovulated and you need to BD just before you ovulate to conceive.

Cx

 

[KX]

Yeah that's true, you are never ready...financially!

I dont want to soud greedy or harsh to those who are ttc with my "maybe it's for the best" comment, I know I should be grateful for Rebecca and I am, would just like her to grow up with a bro or sis to play with! :wink:

Good luck BeatlesBaby ttc, hope u get bfp soon! xx

 

[beatlesbaby66]

oh thank you darlin...and we are all behind you trying for your second...i totally get the want for two, three, seven etc...you still want as much as those going for first...i think.
charting i think would be good too..gives you a head start if you need to get docs involved too as you have done some homework (apart from the obvious homework ...lol)
fingers crossed for you
xox

 

[Wobbles]

Depends on the lenght of your cycle K although you can't really be definate on 'standard' informtion. Charting or using ovulation kits are best if you want to find out but saying that although once O is detected it typically is around the same day in your cycle each month but not always the way either!

The standard info on a 28 day cycle states you are more than likely to O around day 14!

 

[Arcanegirl]

Yeah that's true, you are never ready...financially!

If we were waiting for finnancialy stability we wouldnt be here! Neither of us have a job right now, were both living on jobseekers, although both looking

 

[beatlesbaby66]

all a baby needs is love, somewhere warm to cuddle and food for the tummy...thats what my wee mum has always said

 

[HB]

all a baby needs is love, somewhere warm to cuddle and food for the tummy...thats what my wee mum has always said

I completely agree with that....
When we got pregnant last year my dad was like "but you're not married, and don't own a house you're just renting blah blah blah" I was like "Dad its not 1980 anymore, and the housing market is almost impossible to get into"

Now we've got a mortgage and bills and credit cards and everything... We wouldn't be entitled to any help, so now mum and dad are using that as a "give it a couple of years" excuse.... but i think if everyone waited until they were "Ready" then no-one would ever have babies!! lol!!!

Like wobbles said depends on the length of your cycle, you generally ovulate mid cycle, but everyone is different, it is possible to Ovulate earlier or later.
If you have a nose in the TTC section on page 1 of the chart stalkers thread our charts are on there - the red lines represent "O" day... so you can see how random we all are with our ovulation! hehe!!

I hope you get what you want ASAP! (and think getting Pg means 9 months of no nursery fees with the new Maternity Leave rules from April!) lol!!!

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[Layla]

aww K! *hugs*

with regaurds to the money suitation, there is NEVER a right time to have a baby, so no point in waiting for one coz you will wait forever! lol

hope you TTC real soon

xxx

 

[Tam]

To be honest, we could be a bit more financially stable but we know we will cope, where there's a will there's a way............

It can't be as hard as when I had DD on my own and didn't have 2 pennies to rub together.......but it never stopped any of the love and attention and essentials DD got! You will manage, we always do :wink: