Jozie
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as we all know i was having mild contractions! copeable. i had a lot of complications.. first there was hypernisis givardum, next water leakage, high blood preasure, liver damage and then they found antibodies in my RH- blood...promises that everything would be ok with monitoring etc.. so every week i hada appointment and they decided to give me a sweep..
so monday i head for my sweep and she goes ahead and gives me one.. it was agongy and i couldnt barely walk aftar it! it was awful! i never heard it be so painful b4!..she said i was nearly 2cm.. leaving a girl i was having a chat with while waiting on my lift home said to me " youll be back tonight if you in this much pain now.. i laughed..
so drove home and stood in my sitting room looking down RED FRESH BRIGHT BLOOD.. dreching my pants and trousers! i phone the hosp and they said its normal! and my mother got on the fone and said " its not normal love it like a nose bleed blood and shes she rh neg what the hell have you done on her! " and they said wait for a few hrs see if it stops and ring back when it does... 6 hours later and at least 6 pads.. no stopping they said come in! true to the girl who told me herself id be back in.. and they checked me over.. monitor, blood preasure which was still high, scan, gave me anti-d.. put a vent in and the stupid DICK left the vent open and it was squirting my blood everywhere all over the room and he closed it dead slow.. he said sorry like he was brain damged and my boyfriend was like " oh dont worry its only her blood not like she could die!!!! " and admitted me in.
next morning the midwofe came into my cubicle who done my sweep and was giving me an additude saying " i didnt do that, sweeps dont do that!!!!!!!!! "more or less covering her own back i told her to leave me alone i didnt wana see her again. the top consultant came out to me and said we are keeping you in for a few nights...whatever didnt mind safest place to be.
got a scan to check the bleeding wasnt from the baby or anything vital and discovered the baby was back to back...and not enought fluid round the baby... which we all know BAD! told me to get the gym ball.. so i asked for it and never got it once in my whole stay... they had the monitor on me and the heart rate droped under 110 and raced over 180 a few times.. i know thats not right????????
i cried my eyes out in pain on monday,,, all thru tuesday and wednesday. one midwife said they are only wee niggles ( the shooting pains in my vagina and back.????!?? and wed night came still walking in pain.. i was crying in pain and they never checked me internally.. and the midwife came up and said you can go home now... i was like ok then.. expecting a look over b4 i left?.. i said il pack now.. 5 min later she came back down " oh are you not away yet just leving these change of sheets here 4 when u go "... ok helloo 5 mins and they wanted me out and they seen me on the pain??? so said to her can i get this vent out of my arm and she said yeah and ripped it outta my arm blood everywhere!.. they let me leave ALONE and half 8. without an internal, scan, heartbeat check.. aftar all the bleding and pain. texted a girl who was in the ward with me cause we got close over the 3 days and she said to me 5 mins aftar u left someone was in my bed already and all that was wrong with her was that she was to induced THE NEXT DAY.
so on monday i was 2cm and knowing the pain i went through until wed night how come they didnt double check my dialation b4 i left the hosp.. and all the complications.. i know myself that they are plenty enough not to let me go home.!!!!!!!!!!
UPDATED PART : i think my waters are leaking again and im afraid to phone this hosp. what do i do????? am i suposed to wait until im half dead in these pains water trickling every few secs??
so monday i head for my sweep and she goes ahead and gives me one.. it was agongy and i couldnt barely walk aftar it! it was awful! i never heard it be so painful b4!..she said i was nearly 2cm.. leaving a girl i was having a chat with while waiting on my lift home said to me " youll be back tonight if you in this much pain now.. i laughed..
so drove home and stood in my sitting room looking down RED FRESH BRIGHT BLOOD.. dreching my pants and trousers! i phone the hosp and they said its normal! and my mother got on the fone and said " its not normal love it like a nose bleed blood and shes she rh neg what the hell have you done on her! " and they said wait for a few hrs see if it stops and ring back when it does... 6 hours later and at least 6 pads.. no stopping they said come in! true to the girl who told me herself id be back in.. and they checked me over.. monitor, blood preasure which was still high, scan, gave me anti-d.. put a vent in and the stupid DICK left the vent open and it was squirting my blood everywhere all over the room and he closed it dead slow.. he said sorry like he was brain damged and my boyfriend was like " oh dont worry its only her blood not like she could die!!!! " and admitted me in.
next morning the midwofe came into my cubicle who done my sweep and was giving me an additude saying " i didnt do that, sweeps dont do that!!!!!!!!! "more or less covering her own back i told her to leave me alone i didnt wana see her again. the top consultant came out to me and said we are keeping you in for a few nights...whatever didnt mind safest place to be.
got a scan to check the bleeding wasnt from the baby or anything vital and discovered the baby was back to back...and not enought fluid round the baby... which we all know BAD! told me to get the gym ball.. so i asked for it and never got it once in my whole stay... they had the monitor on me and the heart rate droped under 110 and raced over 180 a few times.. i know thats not right????????
i cried my eyes out in pain on monday,,, all thru tuesday and wednesday. one midwife said they are only wee niggles ( the shooting pains in my vagina and back.????!?? and wed night came still walking in pain.. i was crying in pain and they never checked me internally.. and the midwife came up and said you can go home now... i was like ok then.. expecting a look over b4 i left?.. i said il pack now.. 5 min later she came back down " oh are you not away yet just leving these change of sheets here 4 when u go "... ok helloo 5 mins and they wanted me out and they seen me on the pain??? so said to her can i get this vent out of my arm and she said yeah and ripped it outta my arm blood everywhere!.. they let me leave ALONE and half 8. without an internal, scan, heartbeat check.. aftar all the bleding and pain. texted a girl who was in the ward with me cause we got close over the 3 days and she said to me 5 mins aftar u left someone was in my bed already and all that was wrong with her was that she was to induced THE NEXT DAY.
so on monday i was 2cm and knowing the pain i went through until wed night how come they didnt double check my dialation b4 i left the hosp.. and all the complications.. i know myself that they are plenty enough not to let me go home.!!!!!!!!!!
UPDATED PART : i think my waters are leaking again and im afraid to phone this hosp. what do i do????? am i suposed to wait until im half dead in these pains water trickling every few secs??
xx
definetly switch hospitals and go to whatever higher authority with what has happened to you and get those people for what they did! grr, just grinds my gears!
