A little bit of a MATURE question...

zerolivia

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My doctor says that I can keep my normal sex life. But I can't help but feel like all that bouncing around is messing with my child? Or rough is too rough? Does anybody else feel this way or is it just because it's my first child? I'm 16 weeks pregnant today. :)
 
I do think about it....but we had sex all through our first trimester and it wasn't always especially gentle and baby was fine at our last appointment so I try to tell myself that it's fine. I would be lying if I said I didn't think about it though :)
 
I would let my body be my guide. If it feels uncomfortable; don't do it.
 
I don't know how bouncy you get during sex, but for me... it can't be that much different than when I'm walking or chasing higher-speed after my toddler, and definitely not as bad as the bumpy car drive I used to have to take back and forth to work every single day. I don't worry about it overly much. :)
 
We asked our doctor and she said that we can go on like normal. Baby is still fine and is quiet afterwards, think she likes the rocking effect?
 
I hate it I get so worried by it which then ruins it for hubby, I've just waited so long that I'm almost obsessive about it I suppose. On the other hand I do like feeling close to dh.
 
I'm pretty sure no matter how much rocking/moving is going on that baby is protected just fine by the uterus, and I'd bet that the motion would probably lull them to sleep. Don't worry about it, just enjoy the fact that you have a sex life (cuz I don't have one right now, hehe :p )
 

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