A little Down in the Dumps

[mayb_baby]

All my friends are heading for uni now and well looking at their pics quite frankly I'm jealous, don’t get me wrong I love my son but I can’t help that tiny voice in the back of my head saying ‘that should have been you’
Feels like I'm being left behind and there all moving up and on

 

[MissMamma]

This is why i dont use my facebook!
All my friends left too and i used to stalk them all on facebook but it got me so depressed seeing the things i was missing out on so i stopped. Then my best freind confided in me that yeah uni was fun but she was jealous of the life i had, my long term relationship, my new house, the fact that i'm going to be a mummy! I think its just a case of the grass always seeming greener on the other side. We always want what we cant have..xx

 

[mayb_baby]

Thank you

I know people will think it's selfish I do love my son and I’m so glad and proud to be having him I just thinking as fresher’s week is approaching it's a hard lump to swallow, one of the sacrifices of motherhood.

 

[mumj18]

I'm feeling the same right now. Although I am going to uni this year I know I won't be able to go out for freshers week or anything which will probably stop me making a lot of friends. I suppose it's just a sacrifice we have to make xx

 

[mayb_baby]

It sucks lol
I'm for uni next year and I plan out a little over fresher’s week lol
Although I will be living at home with LO and FOB xxx

 

[hopeandpray]

the grass is always greener, I'm 19 and wtt, started college this week and I am soooo jealous of the beautiful little families that some of you have. There will be a stage in their lives when they are doing what you are doing now, you can achieve everything they can, just not in the same order

 

[Marzipan_girl]

I feel exactly the same! It's horrid...looking at everyone listing their uni's on facebook and talking about how excited they are and whatever...I am definitely still going next year, and I wouldn't wish my baby away for anything...but I feel so left behind! Still, at least we know we are still going...and it will be worth it in the end! Best of both worlds really. Spend a year with LO and ensure he has the best possible start...and then go to uni and set a great example by working hard!
And the year will fly by SO quickly....we will be wishing it didn't so we could spend more time with LO! xx

 

[MissMamma]

the grass is always greener, I'm 19 and wtt, started college this week and I am soooo jealous of the beautiful little families that some of you have. There will be a stage in their lives when they are doing what you are doing now, you can achieve everything they can, just not in the same order

I totally agree with this. I still intend to go to uni and do everyhting they're doing, just in a different order..xx

 

[mayb_baby]

Same thank everyone xxxxx

 

[_laura]

all of my mates from uni keep on asking if im going back and posting messages to each other about the course and it feels a bit like i'm just sat on the side watching in cause i spent a whole year with them and now i'm taking a year out and they will be older/gone by the time i go to finish.
But then i keep thinking what a wonderful thing i'm producing while some of them are producing shitty photos
and it makes everything a whole lot better!