a sad hello

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  1. babytots

    babytots Well-Known Member

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    just popping in to say hello am sure i will be using this part of bnb for weeks and months to come.

    we found out saturday our baby girl had grown wings. i go in to be induced on tuesday.

    i can't beleive this is happening after two early losses last year i thought this time would be different but it appears our angel jessica is very poorly and she lost her fight :cry: i was nearly 19 weeks but my baby measured 17 so not to sure when we lost her as i heard her heartbeating 11 days ago and am sure i felt movements friday morning but i'm begining to think my body was playing a cruel trick on me as obviously it cant of been her.

    i'm lost for words at the moment my heads a mess. i'm so scared for whats to come on tuesday and so scared of meeting my baby girl especially when i know she will be so tiny and fragile.

    i take comfort in the fact she chose to grow her wings rather then us finding out about her abnormalities and having the heart wrenching desicion whether to carry on or not. :cry:x
     
  2. Jessa

    Jessa Guest

    :hugs: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Having recently experienced a late miscarriage at 17 weeks, I can appreciate some of what you're going through. Try to be strong. I'm thinking about you.
     
  3. natasja32

    natasja32 Mum to 4 boys

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    :hugs:aw sweetie im so sorry for your loss...i too have suffered one at 36 weeks,so i know how you are feeling. Take one day at a time hun and if you need to chat,im here so send me a PM. Thinking of you...:hug:
     
  4. jonnanne3

    jonnanne3 Our miracle is HERE!

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    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family and baby Jessica are in our thoughts and prayers. :hug:
     
  5. LeaArr

    LeaArr Just him and me.

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    I am so sorry hun. :hugs:
     
  6. dan-o

    dan-o RMC's but mum to 3 now!

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    Hi babytots, I still can't believe this is happening :(

    Words cannot express how sorry I am :hugs:
     
  7. jen35

    jen35 Well-Known Member

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    So sorry hon.:hugs:
     
  8. Rainstar

    Rainstar Mommy of a sleeping angel

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    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss :hug:
     
  9. Parkep

    Parkep Very happy mom

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    oh hunny im so sorry to hear that.....
     
  10. RobenR

    RobenR Mum to miracle girl & boy

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    I am very sorry for your loss. We lost our little girl at 18w5d back in Feb, so I understand the hurt of a late trimester loss.

    So sorry that you are here, this is a wonderful bunch of people, all highly supportive.

    :hugs:
     
  11. Sandie_Cali

    Sandie_Cali Well-Known Member

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    :hugs: I am sooo sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you and your family.


    :hug:
     
  12. hayley x

    hayley x 1AngelSon,1EarthDaughter

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    I am so sorry to hear about baby Jessica :hugs: thinking of you xxx
     
  13. superp123

    superp123 Super Auntie to 3 + 1

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    So sorry for your loss. :hugs:
     
  14. Snowball

    Snowball Resident badass

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    Oh hun I am so sorry:cry: I was induced with Beau after he grew his wings so understand all the emotions you are going through. I am here if you ever need to talk:hugs:
     
  15. Baby-Cakes

    Baby-Cakes Mum of 2 & 3 Angels

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    So sorry for your loss, you will be in my thoughts on Tuesday xx

    :hug:
     
  16. Dani33

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    You'll be in my thoguhts and prayers.....
     
  17. todteach

    todteach Dreams can come true

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    oh hun. i'm so sorry to hear of your loss. :hugs:
     
  18. JJF

    JJF Finished at 3

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    I'm very sorry for your loss and can't imagine what your going through and how your holding up, I know that you will find lots of support here at bnb.
     
  19. DiddyDons

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    I am so sorry sweetie :cry:

    Here if you want to talk :hugs:

    Donna xxx

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  20. babytots

    babytots Well-Known Member

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    thank you all for your lovely messages! x
     

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