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emilyrose.x
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Hi ladies,
Hope you dont think im intruding..
Firstly i am so sorry to hear about your losses
I had a miscarriage with my 1st pregnancy at 7weeks 2 days in December and I am now 18 weeks pregnant.
I found alot of help and support here and at one point thought that things would never be the same with me - but i just want to let you all know that it does get better.. everyone is different but it took me 3weeks of being bed bound and support from my fiance, friends and this site, but you will smile again.
After the miscarriage I was looking for a answer why it happened, as you will all know, it can be anything - even just bad luck - but I found a article about how if a baby needs certain information (ie to grow 2 lungs, fingers, feet etc) and doesn't have it at that exact time then he/she will short fuse because they know they will not have the best chance in life possible, this article was also followed by a story of a women who went for a 12week scan and found out her child only had 1 lung and would not be able to survive outside the womb, sadly i think we all know what she had to do - this helped me alot as I know i would want my baby to have a healthy start in life and im hoping that some of you will be able to find comfort in it..
Sending all my love & best wishes too you all..
Hope you dont think im intruding..
Firstly i am so sorry to hear about your losses
I had a miscarriage with my 1st pregnancy at 7weeks 2 days in December and I am now 18 weeks pregnant.
I found alot of help and support here and at one point thought that things would never be the same with me - but i just want to let you all know that it does get better.. everyone is different but it took me 3weeks of being bed bound and support from my fiance, friends and this site, but you will smile again.
After the miscarriage I was looking for a answer why it happened, as you will all know, it can be anything - even just bad luck - but I found a article about how if a baby needs certain information (ie to grow 2 lungs, fingers, feet etc) and doesn't have it at that exact time then he/she will short fuse because they know they will not have the best chance in life possible, this article was also followed by a story of a women who went for a 12week scan and found out her child only had 1 lung and would not be able to survive outside the womb, sadly i think we all know what she had to do - this helped me alot as I know i would want my baby to have a healthy start in life and im hoping that some of you will be able to find comfort in it..
Sending all my love & best wishes too you all..
