A year since we lost #1, trying again, anyone else?

[Dollface94]

Hi everyone..

I'm so excited to be back on here again, it feels so strange! I won't go into too much detail but i'll give a rough outline. I had an account here last year when I fell pregnant unexpectedly at 17 but completely abandoned the account and my life really when I lost the baby at 8 weeks. I didn't find out until the 12 week scan as it was a MMC, completely broke me. I've been on the pill since as I couldn't take going through another pregnancy. Me and my boyfriend are still together, we live together. I'm 19 in three months and he's 20 in october.

The doctor says my body should regulate itself and get back to normality quite quickly as I wasn't really on the pill very long in the doctors eyes. I just took my last pack and waiting on my period, and then i'll probably wait a couple of weeks like i've been advised and then just see what happens. I just wanted to get to know everyone on here again, as last time I had so many B&B friends and then having to give the news was so horrible! Last friday was the date that marked me finding out about the MMC, 7-6-2012 was the date of my 12 week scan and now that's out the way and there's no more anniversaries, I feel ready to take it slow and start again. I know i'm so young but we know it's what we both want, and at the end of the day, we can.. we won't struggle and have all the support in the world but the main thing is we can stand on our own two feet and be the most loving parents we can be.

Sorry it's so long, but yeah, talk ladies

 

[Dollface94]

A couple of things I forgot to add..

Mainly that I had a D&C which i'm worried will have messed things up for future babies. Also, does anyone else feel like going to the scan and seeing a moving baby is just such a distant, impossible feeling that will never happen? I need to start thinking positively but the first scan imagine I ever saw was my baby just lifeless so I can't imagine going to see a fully formed baby..

 

[jessandaj]

I had a Miscarrige when I was 18 in October (me and my husband were trying then lol I've been married since I was 17) I turned 19 in may and it was y first cycle ttc again since my Miscarrige. In all I waited about 7 months to try again. My husband just turned 21 and its what we want we've wanted it since we go married 2 years ago. I also feel like getting pregnant again and seeing that positve and hearing a babys heartbeats a long shot some days but other days I like to think about 85%of couples will concieve in a year so I shouldn't count myself out yet. Good luck !!

 

[Dollface94]

Sorry for your loss! Just read your signature thing.. i've got a tilted uterus too? i've completely forgotten about it but reading that has just reminded me about it. So strange! I can completely understand what you mean about wanting a baby young.. you're married so you have even more of a reason than me. I think some girls just know what they want, and as long as you've got the right foundations for it then that's that! Tomorrow should be the day my period buggers off so i'm gonna try and feel hopeful from tomorrow onwards.. good luck, hope you get your rainbow baby soon x

 

[jessandaj]

I found out about during my Miscarrige when I was getting the ultrasound. It gets me down sometimes that I have one cause they said it could possibly take longer to concieve but then again it might not. I agree that some people are young hut when your in a stable relationship and able to handle the cost and such then there's no reason you should be judged about trying to get pregnant. I'm due to ovulate in a few days and I'm trying to stay positive that just maybe it will happen fast this time. Keeping my fingers crossed for us !!

 

[Dollface94]

Mine was similar.. I had a scan at roughly 8 weeks and saw no movement obviously but did notice the heartbeat fluttering away. and then at the 12 weeks scan the baby was just gone, it was so horrible! i'm petrified of seeing the same thing next time. I think it's all in our heads because of the past experiences but i'm sure we will be fine keep in touch!

 

[jessandaj]

I have alot of hope it will be better and everything will be fine this time I'm worried but I still think it'll work out for us next time. Miscarriges are a fairy normal thing as hard as it is to take.