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Welcome to BnB.....Sill you are not a looser!
I'm a loser beacause I got my girlfriend pregnant (its an unplanned pregnancy). Within the past I dunno year or so my life as just been crap. Problems with school and then snapping on everyone at home, loosing a few jobs and problems passing my licence road test and not even knowing I am even going to pass all my courses and graduate. So it come the end of June and my marks are crap I failed one course and barley passed the rest of them so I got into a fight with my parents, siblings, aunt, uncle and cousin and I just got up and left. I gave up on life. The going got tough, so the tough got going. So I hopped into my car (1985 Oldsmobile Cutlass Supreme) and just drove off into the evening. The last words that were said to me by my parents were "John, don't do this", the last words said to me by my girlfriend were "Where are you going? When are you comming home? and I'll be waiting here for you". The last words I said to my brother was "Take care of her". Now I didn't know my girlfriend was a few weeks pregnant at the time.
So I take off into the evening and move down to the states. Started living the life I wanted and it was lonely I admit but in a way it was perfect. I was living in a way where I was happy. I got a job working for this auto shop, learned a few tricks of the trade. Then my brother and girlfriend appear out of no where one . They came in search of me and the actually tracked me down. They begged me to come home. And they made me come home, only because she's pregnant and I want to be there for her and the baby, I still love her a whole lot. Also I'm on the verse of loosing my new job.
So I take off into the evening and move down to the states. Started living the life I wanted and it was lonely I admit but in a way it was perfect. I was living in a way where I was happy. I got a job working for this auto shop, learned a few tricks of the trade. Then my brother and girlfriend appear out of no where one . They came in search of me and the actually tracked me down. They begged me to come home. And they made me come home, only because she's pregnant and I want to be there for her and the baby, I still love her a whole lot. Also I'm on the verse of loosing my new job.
Iwantone!!!
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hello welcome to bnb all the best xx ur not a loser u went bk xxxx
shamrockgirl4
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oh well if none of us can convince u that ur not dunno what else to say the job thing there are other jobs just start searching
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Hi John, welcome to Baby and Bump.
You're still very young, too young to be giving up on things and labelling yourself as a 'loser.'
Going by what you have written, you obviously don't want to be a loser or let down your girlfriend and baby. You seem to really want to change your situation, even if things haven't worked out for you in the past.
Don't just give up on yourself. Only you can determine the path you are on and if you just say, 'well, what do you expect, I'm a loser' then that's exactly what will happen. Even if your job does end at Christmas, work really hard at giving a good impression and learn as much as you can from the work. Then if the work does end, you can move on with more confidence and with a good reference from you ex-employers.
My sister lost a lot of jobs when she was younger due to low confidence and nerves, but she didn't give up and is now doing really well in a job that she has held down for three years and is happy with her fiancee in their new flat.
You can do it - just have faith in yourself and remember, you have a new little person who will soon be depending on you.
Good luck
You're still very young, too young to be giving up on things and labelling yourself as a 'loser.'
Going by what you have written, you obviously don't want to be a loser or let down your girlfriend and baby. You seem to really want to change your situation, even if things haven't worked out for you in the past.
Don't just give up on yourself. Only you can determine the path you are on and if you just say, 'well, what do you expect, I'm a loser' then that's exactly what will happen. Even if your job does end at Christmas, work really hard at giving a good impression and learn as much as you can from the work. Then if the work does end, you can move on with more confidence and with a good reference from you ex-employers.
My sister lost a lot of jobs when she was younger due to low confidence and nerves, but she didn't give up and is now doing really well in a job that she has held down for three years and is happy with her fiancee in their new flat.
You can do it - just have faith in yourself and remember, you have a new little person who will soon be depending on you.
Good luck
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