Achey heart today :-(

[FabPop]

Ntnp since January, started using opks etc around march, finally fell pregnant in May but had a chemical, followed by a quiffy cycle this month & another chemical Told hubby I don't think I want another bub as this has broken my heart.. But deep down I know I'd love another, so decided I'd hang out here for a bit. Anyways woke up to another Facebook pregnancy announcement & I'm sat here holding back the tears (or not) Sorry for the essay, just needed somewhere to vent, no one elsee to talk too..

 

[Angel022605]

I am so sorry to hear about your 2 chemicals. My friend just had her second mc. She too is heart broken. Maybe try seeing a specialist. Hers is an easy fix and most of the time it is an easy fix, like either med or an adjustment here and there. It'll happen when it's supposed to. Sometimes when you want it the most it can be stressful TTC. That's why DH and I backed off from TTC to NTNP because it lessens the stress and doesn't make BD a chore. We decided if it happens it happens and if it doesn't its ok.

 

[FabPop]

Thank u for ur reply Angel x If I have another then I'm going to go to the docs, but yes I'm going for the same approach, I'm going to give up the opks & try not to test til I'm actually late, hopefully that will save any more heart break. I'm sorry about ur friend, I hope she is doing OK. Good luck to the both of u, Have u been trying long? xx

 

[Avo82]

Sorry to hear about what your going through *hugs* time is a healer, maybe just take a more layed back approach like NTNP no opks or anything and just wait till af if not then test, I kno it's easier said than done. Just try to stay strong xxx

 

[Angel022605]

Thank u for ur reply Angel x If I have another then I'm going to go to the docs, but yes I'm going for the same approach, I'm going to give up the opks & try not to test til I'm actually late, hopefully that will save any more heart break. I'm sorry about ur friend, I hope she is doing OK. Good luck to the both of u, Have u been trying long? xx

I am currently NTNP.