tillymum
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My LO is impossible to calm down when she cries, the ONLY thing that will calm her is to BF. I seem to be constantly feeding her as a result and it is really starting to stress me out. I am literally feeding her every hour or less even! When she starts to cry she just escalates into a frenzy and nothing other than a BF will calm her! I think this has become a bad habit, my MIL says she's using me as a 'human soother'.
I don't know how to control this! I'm worried about how I will calm her down when I stop BF'ing in a couple of months.
My other problem is getting her to sleep in the day, she used to nap on and off throughout the day but now she fights it at all costs, which makes her tired and upset and.....out comes my boob to comfort her so she'll sleep! I feel like she's attached to me all day and I can't get anything done!
Don't get me wrong she's a happy, chirpy cutie when she's not crying but it's like smile one minute unconsoleable crying the next!
My Dh is convinced she is just hungry all the time and we should start giving her a FF along with BF to top her up and let her go longer or to start her on solids, but I just think she's in the habit of getting boobie when she's upset and now nothing else will console her.
I feel I can't leave her with her Dad or Nan during the day cos she'll kick off and they won't be able to calm her!
I feel like I'm a bad mum to have developed this comfort sucking habit and I don't know how to stop it or how to calm her down and it's just stressing me out now! Plus with Christmas coming I know that my mum and mil will be on at me for how often I feed her and how it's not right, and as well intentioned these comments are they just upset me!!!
Any advice?
I don't know how to control this! I'm worried about how I will calm her down when I stop BF'ing in a couple of months.
My other problem is getting her to sleep in the day, she used to nap on and off throughout the day but now she fights it at all costs, which makes her tired and upset and.....out comes my boob to comfort her so she'll sleep! I feel like she's attached to me all day and I can't get anything done!
Don't get me wrong she's a happy, chirpy cutie when she's not crying but it's like smile one minute unconsoleable crying the next!
My Dh is convinced she is just hungry all the time and we should start giving her a FF along with BF to top her up and let her go longer or to start her on solids, but I just think she's in the habit of getting boobie when she's upset and now nothing else will console her.
I feel I can't leave her with her Dad or Nan during the day cos she'll kick off and they won't be able to calm her!
I feel like I'm a bad mum to have developed this comfort sucking habit and I don't know how to stop it or how to calm her down and it's just stressing me out now! Plus with Christmas coming I know that my mum and mil will be on at me for how often I feed her and how it's not right, and as well intentioned these comments are they just upset me!!!
Any advice?