Advice or opinions please!

[sammynashley]

Me and hubby decided to put ttc on hold for two months due to us going away next year. So this month we've tried to be "careful" I didn't chart although I think I'm around 11/12dpo.

The weirdest thing happened to me yesterday wen I came home from work I went to the loo and looked down and the was a funny looking blood clot (sorry tmi) in my knickers but no blood and cervix appeared closed. Didn't have any cramping either.. Then today I've had some red/orange/pink very stretchy ewcm but it never ends up on my underwear I've never had this before also felt very sick earlier to the point of dry heaving 5/6 times. Do you think it's worth testing? Or do you think af is about to arrive?

 

[kajastarlight]

its hard to say - if it were me I would test, and then test again on the day AF is due (if she doesn't come anyway)

 

[sammynashley]

Thanks Hun, I just hate seeing those negative tests and don't want to get my hopes up for nothing!

 

[Fertilitygirl]

It doesn't hurt to test. Sending you baby dust...

 

[sammynashley]

Woke up this morning and the bleeding had gone cm is now creamy with a little tiny bit of ewcm and cervix is still closed. Still now sure weather it's worth getting my hopes up by buying a test

 

[Sunny.X]

Take a test when you're ready to Hun. I agree with what you say when you say you hate seeing negative test. For me, it's disheartening and very discouraging, testing does hurt me, that's why I always test if AF is late and not before. Maybe leave it a few more days?

 

[sammynashley]

Turned out to be af still only one more cycle and well be back at ttc

 

[kajastarlight]

Sorry the witch got you - hope time flies by for you so you can get back to ttc