advice please: Devastated

[sopho30]

Hi all..

I really did not think i would be posting on here....Bear with me as im still im complete shock

Yesterday at 9 weeks and 6 days what started out as a normal day..I felt so tired so i went to lie down..Within 30 mins i felt a gush, looked and my bed was flooding with bright red warm blood...It was like a tap had been turned on, it didnt stop ...My bathroom was flooded, 2 large bath towels soaked through...And the blood kept coming...Had about 7 clots come out, ranging in size..But through it all ..not 1 bit of pain, no cramping nothing......so we went to hospital..They were concerned re : blood loss as it was sooo much..Dr saw me and said cervix was now closed with only small ammount of blood. She said that a miscarraige had happened and she was confident all was out.....I have a scan on monday!!! to check everything is out of me....

I am devastated . Cant get my head round it at all, keep thinking its a bad dream....

I just wondered did anybody experience this, no pain?? and surely i would have noticed if id passed my baby?

I had a scan 2 weeks a go and saw baby with a heartbeat......

Why has this happened with no warning

 

[keeppositive]

Hi

I am really so very sorry for your loss. Keep strong, but I know it is easier said than done. It really is heartbreaking. I think it is strange how you had no pain but maybe it can just happen like that too?
I have just had a miscarriage, was only 3 weeks so very early but still, a loss is a loss. And I don't think it is finished yet .
I just wanted to drop by and say how sorry I am and if you need anyone to talk to please feel free.
hugs my dear xx

 

[Izzie74]

So sorry for your loss ( )

 

[sopho30]

Hi...Ok so bit of an update!! The hospital rang today and got me fitted in for scan this morning..They said they wud check all was out and if not prep me for d&c..So im lay there and i see a baby , my heart sank as i really didnt wana go through a d&c , however baby had a heartbeat!!!! omg i sobbed...midwife couldnt believe it...The explanation they gave me was that i lost a twin....My emotions r all over the place...what a crazy day........

 

[MyLittleFish]

Oh hunni! That must have been so scary! So sorry for the loss of one your babies but hoping for a h&h 9 months for your other little one