How do you all cope? How do you cope if it's just you and the baby, doing daily things like having a shower? What do you do if the baby cries and cries and you need 5 mins? Im not asking to judge you in anyway, im asking for advice. For those of you who were with someone when had the baby, and split up then, how do you cope with the change? How did you adjust? And did it confuse the child?