stellababy
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why do i find myself hoping to randomly get pregnant when this is not a good time yet... whats wrong with me.
AF a day late..
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butterbaby
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I agree, it's a strong desire to have a LO and it presents itself in this way. I have had many months in the past couple years where I am convinced I am pregnant, even though it either wasn't possible (On BCP, not BDing at the right time), nor the right time for us.
I think part of it is that there's some aspect to a 'surprise' baby that's novel to me now that I'm married. I don't mean to get too deep here but it's almost like a surprise baby would be a sign from the universe, or a product of our love, or something cheesy like that.
I think part of it is that there's some aspect to a 'surprise' baby that's novel to me now that I'm married. I don't mean to get too deep here but it's almost like a surprise baby would be a sign from the universe, or a product of our love, or something cheesy like that.
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I think everyone who is "patiently" waiting secretly does this every month hehe. Imagine what we'll all be like when we're actually ttc 
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Yeah I'm the same hahaha
I've taken pregnancy tests in the past even when I know it's impossible lol
I've taken pregnancy tests in the past even when I know it's impossible lol
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i can relate!! one day late and a little nausea and im peeing on a stick! lol i def drive myself crazy at times
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I was like that for my 1st. I knew I shouldn't be trying. We were a couple only about 1 year, not living together yet, in fact not even in the same country yet but I was purposely not too careful with birth control and I got pregnant.
We really do make the situation work even when it's not ideal and I didn't have a moment of regret!! Regret and being able to acknowledge that there would've been an easier time are two different things though. I didn't see my husband for 1 year because I got pregnant before we started the immigration process. He met our daughter when she was 6 months old. I could've had an easier time if I stayed with him during the immigration process and got pregnant when we came back to Canada. But I feel like everything is as it should be despite that
We really do make the situation work even when it's not ideal and I didn't have a moment of regret!! Regret and being able to acknowledge that there would've been an easier time are two different things though. I didn't see my husband for 1 year because I got pregnant before we started the immigration process. He met our daughter when she was 6 months old. I could've had an easier time if I stayed with him during the immigration process and got pregnant when we came back to Canada. But I feel like everything is as it should be despite that
