I went for afternoon tea at a posh hotel yesterday with 4 other women from work. We went as a treat for our friend who has got cancer of the kidneys and I played the piano for her. It was the hotel that Paula Yates stayed at in in the country in Kent. It was lovely but cost us each 12 pounds ans consisted of: Finger sandwiches with cream cheese smoked salmon or ham. (I was good and only ate the ham ones) but then all the cakes had cream! I didnt wasnt to waste my money and just have 3 finger sandwiches so I had a scone with clotted cream and jam, a chocolate eclair and a tart with cream in. I feel so naughty and bad now as i know im not allowed to eat this when pregnant and now im worried that it will harm the baby!!! If anything happens i wont forgive myself for it.