It is really getting to me this month. Had an IUI last week, and was happy to hear my husband's swimmers were more plentiful (31 Million) and "very active." I'm 10 DPO, got a on 7 DPO and another one this morning. I know it is early but I thought with an IUI - if successful you should have a BFP by 10 DPO. Anyway meantime every time I get the smallest pain, pull, or jab in the groin, lower abdomen, and bbs -- I think, "maybe?" We've been trying for some time now, and for the past 5 months, at least 2 months I've had serious pains and really held out hope that my body was telling me something. Today I had sharp pains in my right breast. My back has been killing me the last few days. I feel constant slight "pressure" in between my hip bones in that general area. Why have I never noticed these pains before? Why do I obsess about them? I'm so annoyed with my body for faking me out like this. OK, end of rant.