hi my OH is super keen for us to be pregnant soon and is soo keen even though im still on bcp, that if i get an upset stomach or anything else he asks if it could be a sign! im keen too but ive decided that we need to wait a while. my pills finish in march and i want 3 months off till we try in june. i know im being sensible as we need to get money and house things sorted first, but his egerness makes me wonder if im just being over cautious. especially when i read how many peoples OH cant set a date or arnt even sure about the whole thing. it sounds to me reading other peoples posts that im being the man in this and hes being the woman!