Hello ladies,
My husband and I are both 38. I waited to find and marry my prince charming. We both have never married. We dated for a year and a half, and married 5.5 months ago. I am ready to start, started feeling my clock tick at 34. We are closing on a house next week. I am grateful to have married "the man of my dreams," and be closing on a house. A month ago I asked him about trying and he said in a month. Well, it's been a month, and now he wants to wait until after moving in, settle in which may and says maybe a month maybe 3 months I know my body very well, and know I will be ovulating next week and have my 6 most fertile days arriving soon. Every egg dropped feels like gold lost. As a 38 yr old woman who wants kids, your peroid actually becomes a value. We have used a condem since getting married. I don't understand why we can't just lose the condem, and move at the same time. The baby is not going to pop out day of conception. It is obvious the last thing he wants to do is hurt me. I know at this age, every day that goes by, your eggs age significantly. I want him to feel ready, and of couse don't want to force him into this. I don't know how I am going to get through next week when I have been counting the days down to these fertile days, and those eggs will just go to waste. Am I being overly worried? Should I sit back and give him a couple more months. I am sooooooooooo sad. Any words of advice??
My husband and I are both 38. I waited to find and marry my prince charming. We both have never married. We dated for a year and a half, and married 5.5 months ago. I am ready to start, started feeling my clock tick at 34. We are closing on a house next week. I am grateful to have married "the man of my dreams," and be closing on a house. A month ago I asked him about trying and he said in a month. Well, it's been a month, and now he wants to wait until after moving in, settle in which may and says maybe a month maybe 3 months I know my body very well, and know I will be ovulating next week and have my 6 most fertile days arriving soon. Every egg dropped feels like gold lost. As a 38 yr old woman who wants kids, your peroid actually becomes a value. We have used a condem since getting married. I don't understand why we can't just lose the condem, and move at the same time. The baby is not going to pop out day of conception. It is obvious the last thing he wants to do is hurt me. I know at this age, every day that goes by, your eggs age significantly. I want him to feel ready, and of couse don't want to force him into this. I don't know how I am going to get through next week when I have been counting the days down to these fertile days, and those eggs will just go to waste. Am I being overly worried? Should I sit back and give him a couple more months. I am sooooooooooo sad. Any words of advice??