It seems as though my SIL is on a mission to make me miserable. I don't see her very often as we live quite far away so we mainly communicate via facebook. I had 2 miscarriages earlier this year and a couple of days after my last miscarriage she posted on facebook 'I've got loads of baby clothes to give away - any takers?' which to be honest really got to me at the time. I am now thankfully pregnant again. This week I heard that the results of my triple test show that I am at high risk of having a baby with Down Syndrome. I've just logged onto facebook and there is some comment that SIL has just posted about how she can't believe her children are so beautiful and that they have got perfect genes. Her children are truely gorgeous but I have got to say that I have never heard anyone refer to their children's genes in this way and it really feels like she is having a dig at me. I have been an emotional wreck this week - so am I just over reacting to her comments? Or is she a bitch from hell who is trying to upset me knowing full well that I will read her comments? The other really strange thing is that she has said that she won't give us any baby stuff because 'you don't want second hand stuff for your first baby - I'm going to sell it all on e-bay!' WTF? We have always been so welcoming and generous to her children I just can't understand why she is being like this.