this has really been an on going problem throughout my pregnancy. me and OH are both quite young and we are the first out of both sets of friends to settle down and start a family which means that our friends are still going out, socialising, drinking and stuff. obviously for me going out and drinking stopped months ago which has meant i dont see my friends half as much but my OH goes out every week to the pub!!! i know im jealous cos would love to let my hair down a bit and shouldnt take it out on him but he gets drunk nearly everytime he goes, expects me to take him and pick him up and then sometimes even when im there to pick him up ses "ive not quite finished my pint come inside for a bit!" which really winds me up cos i have to sit there like a fatty and get it rubbed in my face that i am a fatty at the mo. we argue everytime he goes out but it doesnt change anything he still goes! its the only time he sees his friends but what about me!!