I need your help ladies, and please tell me if im being stupid. If you'd read my previous posts you'd know ive recently had an ectopic pregnancy. It was just over a wk ago and was quite serious, i had to stay in hospital 4 days as i lost between 1 and 1.5 litres of blood as well as my baby well my OH who usually is quite good was with me most of the time, but on my last day I had to make a few tough decisions i.e what to do with the remains and if I wanted councelling. My OH was there and he knew how upset I got. Well early evening he said he was going to nip home and grab a few things then come back. just before he left he said he was also going out for dinner with a mutual friend of ours (male). i didnt mind this because the food wasnt great but i was a little annoyed he'd been arranging it all day without telling me. It takes about 50 mins to get from the hospital i was at to home and after about 2hrs he said he'd be back in another 4hrs!! At that point I was a little annoyed and asked what was going to take that long and he said he was going to go to the cinema. Am i being silly getting annoyed at that? he was feeling ok to go have fun while i was stuck in hospital alone? he got to go out have a nice dinner and have fun by going to the cinema whilst i had to sit on my own? its really getting to me! sorry fot the essay!