Ok so my son is just coming up to 13 months. He still sleeps with his movement mat under the matress and a obsess over the alarm to make sure its on for about 5 mins every night before i go to bed - lots of trips back to his bedroom to 'double,triple check' the alarm is on etc... he has a fitted sheet and an airy cover that i tuck right under the matress so it cant go over his face and he has NOTHING else in the cot with him - no toys, no bumper NOTHING! i keep seeing things about how its good for them to have stuff in there with them so when they wake up they can play. I prefer to go straight and get him when he crys in the morning as it makes me feel uneasy having anything in with him? and i being OTT? honestly?