Am I pregnant?

[Jennc1742]

Hello everyone,

I'm not currently TTC, but I am worried about being pregnant Atm. My period was due December 17th but it's still not here. A week after the 17th I took a first response digital test and it was negative, three days later another and negative. Took another two weeks after my missed period and negative again, and I finally took my last one yesterday and it's negative.

My BF and I had sex 5 days before December 17th using a condom. He didn't ejaculate inside of me and I filled the condom up with water after to make sure there aren't any holes.

My nipples have been sore, and I've been bloated and gassy since the 17the which are my normal symptoms before I get my period. Last week I started getting a clear discharge but it's not as much anymore.

I went to the doctors today and she ordered me a blood test that I'm going to do tomorrow. Any ideas?

 

[pachamama92]

Hey hon, it is really unlikely you are pregnant if you were due the 17th and tests are still negative. Also, you used protection and he didn't even come inside

Its probably more likely you are stressing out and that is why your period is late. I know because it happened to me more than once before I was trying to get pregnant. Then I tried to get pregnant and realised I had panicked way more than I needed to have in the past! Trust me, I doubt you are pregnant hon. Good luck tomorrow nonetheless!!

 

[Buffyx]

Agree with pp

 

[minties]

Perhaps you ovulated late? The clear discharge could have been fertile mucous.

 

[mum140381]

update ?

 

[Jennc1742]

Thank you all of you for the responses!

I'm just about to leave for my blood test. I'm truly hoping I'm not pregnant as I'm not ready to have a baby at the moment.

Seems like my breasts are more painful this morning, and I keep getting short sharp pains in my lower abdomen.

 

[mum140381]

gud luck with the docs x

 

[chistiana]

I agree with the other ladies. If you ve always been careful then I doubt you're pg. Hope you get the results you want anyhow.

 

[Jennc1742]

I agree with the other ladies. If you ve always been careful then I doubt you're pg. Hope you get the results you want anyhow.

Thank you!

I'm worried again because my lower back feels sore

 

[HappiestMom]

Hope u get the results u want!! Please update us!

 

[Jennc1742]

Hey everyone!

Results aren't in yet, but I couldn't stop thinking about it so I bought another first response digital test. This is my fifth test and I'm almost 20 days late for my period. I'm sure if I were pregnant I would show a positive test, I've been doing them step by step, and reading the correct instructions

 

[Jennc1742]

It's now exactly 20 days late and I'm so worried. I don't get my blood test results until Thursday. If I were to be pregnant would my doctor call me to see me earlier? She hasn't called at all

 

[pachamama92]

It's now exactly 20 days late and I'm so worried. I don't get my blood test results until Thursday. If I were to be pregnant would my doctor call me to see me earlier? She hasn't called at all

Maybe, it probably depends on your doctor. I have been that late before, in fact I think it was 50 days in the end. I was going through a difficult patch and i think I just didn't ovulate so didnt have a period. Have you had anything stressful happen this month? Mine disappeared when I went through a really tough breakup, then I was so convinced I was pregnant which wouldn't have been good timing! Or have you lost a lot of weight, gone on a diet or done more exercise than normal? There are a few things that can stop you ovulating so put a pause on your period. It can be something you haven't even thought about.

 

[Weffie]

Hey lovely. There could be a bunch of reasons as to why you are late. I think if you were pregnant you would definitely have a pos result by now. Just remember that sometimes when we think we may be pregnant our bodies start believing it and we trick ourselves in having phantom symptoms. Let us know when you have your results

 

[LittleLala]

First of all - big hugs this must be scary.

Secondly- I agree with the other girls. I very highly doubt that you are pregnant. And stressing will only delay your period even longer!! That's how our stupid bodies work lol.

You may have ovulated late (or not even at all), or it might just be a strange cycle. I know that when I was a teenager, whenever something big was going on, it would mess with my cycles. For example- if I was ever going away on camp or holidays or something - bam! It would show up but if I was stressed about something, it would be late.

Your tests would 99% be correct by now if you were pregnant. Try to sit back, relax, and watch some bad tv or something to distract your mind. Not all doctors call - my doctor has a "no results over the phone policy".

Good luck x

 

[Jennc1742]

It's now exactly 20 days late and I'm so worried. I don't get my blood test results until Thursday. If I were to be pregnant would my doctor call me to see me earlier? She hasn't called at all

Maybe, it probably depends on your doctor. I have been that late before, in fact I think it was 50 days in the end. I was going through a difficult patch and i think I just didn't ovulate so didnt have a period. Have you had anything stressful happen this month? Mine disappeared when I went through a really tough breakup, then I was so convinced I was pregnant which wouldn't have been good timing! Or have you lost a lot of weight, gone on a diet or done more exercise than normal? There are a few things that can stop you ovulating so put a pause on your period. It can be something you haven't even thought about.

Hello Pachamama, thanks so much for replying!
Stress can definitely push back a period, but the only thing I can think of is that the end of November/early December was exam month and I had lots of major assignments due. But that happens after every semester and my period has never been this late

I haven't lost any weight and haven't been exercising. To be honest I feel like I have cysts because my boyfriend's sister had exactly the same symptoms as me before they found out she had polycystic ovary syndrome.

It just worries me because I've had lighter than usual periods this month that only lasts 3-4 days when they usually last 5-6. My entire period has just been messed up this month. I just hope it's not pregnancy or something sinister

 

[Jennc1742]

Hey lovely. There could be a bunch of reasons as to why you are late. I think if you were pregnant you would definitely have a pos result by now. Just remember that sometimes when we think we may be pregnant our bodies start believing it and we trick ourselves in having phantom symptoms. Let us know when you have your results

Hey Weffie! Thank you for replying.
That's exactly what I thought, that by now I would probably be feeling early symptoms of pregnancy. I do have anxiety which causes dizziness every now and then, and I have been feeling slightly dizzy this week which of course makes me think "omg! I'm pregnant"

I may just be over thinking it. I'm so nervous for tomorrow though, and my appointment isn't until 4pm, I'm going to drive myself crazy, I swear! haha

 

[Jennc1742]

First of all - big hugs this must be scary.

Secondly- I agree with the other girls. I very highly doubt that you are pregnant. And stressing will only delay your period even longer!! That's how our stupid bodies work lol.

You may have ovulated late (or not even at all), or it might just be a strange cycle. I know that when I was a teenager, whenever something big was going on, it would mess with my cycles. For example- if I was ever going away on camp or holidays or something - bam! It would show up but if I was stressed about something, it would be late.

Your tests would 99% be correct by now if you were pregnant. Try to sit back, relax, and watch some bad tv or something to distract your mind. Not all doctors call - my doctor has a "no results over the phone policy".

Good luck x

Hello Littlelala thanks for your response
Thanks so much for the support, it's definitely so scary my parents are so worried about me, and of course so is my boyfriend.

Stress is such a pain in the butt! It really could be the reason as to why I am so late. I posted above that I did have big assignments and exams due at the end of November/beginning of December for university. That may have been an issue but this is my third year there and it has never been this late .

You're right though, I may not have ovulated. But it's weird because a week after my late period I had a clear discharge which made me think I finally ovulated but no period yet

Yes I'm sure my tests must be right, especially since I've taken 5! I'm trying to get my mind off it. Thanks again

 

[Jennc1742]

My doctor left me a message saying my results are in and she would like to talk to me. I'm so worried. :'(

 

[LittleLala]

Good luck, I hope everything is okay. We will all be here for you if you need support x