An Oopsie...Pull-Out, anyone?

[Lara310809]

We used the pull-out method for over 8 years and had no slip-ups whatsoever, but it CAN happen. I hope you get the outcome that's best for you and your OH; whatever that may be

 

[lucy_smith]

Bf is just so laid back and I like to plan what will happen will happen is not what I want to hear! which makes it really annoying! Lol just wish I new what he was thinking about.
I think bf knows what he is doing to, we will just have to wait and see!
Hopefully find out tonight ! How long until af is due wonder 10 ? U got much of a wait ?,

 

[wonders10]

Bf is just so laid back and I like to plan what will happen will happen is not what I want to hear! which makes it really annoying! Lol just wish I new what he was thinking about.
I think bf knows what he is doing to, we will just have to wait and see!
Hopefully find out tonight ! How long until af is due wonder 10 ? U got much of a wait ?,

That is my bf to a tee!

AF is due 11/23 give or take a day so I have about a week of waiting.

 

[slg76]

You guys are very patients with those men. I would get so frustrated with them for not sharing more. That said, my hubby shares more than most. Sometimes I get frustrated with him for being so emotional. No pleasing me, huh?

 

[wonders10]

Sometimes I think my bf has a plan ....but doesn't want to tell me so I get all excited, etc. I'm not into the whole ultimatum thing either. I'm happy and in love, why would I leave you know? It's no secret to him how I feel and what I want eventually so I truly believe it will happen (marriage and babies) when it's supposed to.

Who knows...he may have a bun in the oven and not even know it lol.

 

[lucy_smith]

A week isn't long!! Hope u get what u want! I feel like I've got ages to wait! Lol This is so exciting! Just wish it was time for af to show up! Lol see thats what I think, I think bf knows what his place is. It's really strange lol I said to him last night if he was worried about what happened on Saturday night and he said should I be, and asked if I was and I said no, just worried about what he was thinking. And I asked what if I fell pregnant and he was just like if it happens it happens and if it doesn't then it doesn't.

 

[Aleeah]

Well, hubby was very much like, when the time's right. But when is it ever perfect?! So I threw a mega strop and said I needed a date to work towards, otherwise our relationship was all about what he wanted, when he wanted it. So we agreed a compromise of 6 months time. When the time came to stop using condoms I could see he was really scared but did it anyway. We barely had sex that month as he was so nervous about it all and I did feel bad, as he was going along with things for me. But lo and behold I fell pregnant and he wasn't excited like I wanted him to be. He thought I'd tricked him into believing it would take months and months, I honestly believed it would. But he was just coming to terms with it when I miscarried. I'll never forget his broken face, I then realised he wanted the baby as much as I did but just couldn't express it like us ladies do. We talked about things more then and I knew he was in it as much as me, just very silently.

We unfortunately went onto miscarry again and were told to not try until we'd seen a specialist to get a diagnosis (I've had miscarriages before too). And so we used condoms, except 1 whoopsie, just a second... thought nothing of it.

Went to our specialist appointment during which they did a scan to see if there were any abnormalities in my uterus and there was the beginings of a new pregnancy! It was such a shock the sonographer left me and hubby on our own as she thought I'd been playing around when my husband said it was impossible!!! That little whoopsie is currently 11 weeks in my tummy! We couldn't be happier, but think it'll be awkward telling everyone as my last D&C was only 12 weeks ago!!

Wonders: It can happen, it can happen when you least expect it, I'm just shocked as we've used this method for 6 years and no other unplanned pregnancies... what could have been!!xxx

Good luck ladies, my advice to Lucy: talk to your hubby, honestly and openly. He may just not have thought about it for very long, tell him to think about it and then let you know how he feels in a day or so. You might be pleasantly surprised xxx

 

[lucy_smith]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. But it must have been an amazing feeling when you found out you where expecting again I'm glad to hear everything went well!
Maybe men just don't know what they want until they have it? If that makes sence ?
I'm glad you shared your story !

 

[curlykate]

We've had a couple of "oopsie" moments since deciding that we were almost ready for another one. However, we had those oopsie moments, knowing full well that our end goal was another pregnancy. Maybe not that soon, but eventually. It was exciting at the time to think I might end up pregnant again, but in reality none of them were at the right time, so it didn't happen.