well, as you can see, i'm new. i'm a military spouse living overseas. my hubby and i are ttc and have been for the past year. this month is our 12th. this has been scaring the crap out of me for a while too. however, i've recently decided to be less obsessed with it. the bad thing about being overseas is the lack of medical testing for any infertility problems. i guess we'll just have to wait and see for a while longer. and by the way, i'm 21 and my hubby is 23 in case anyone was wondering.