londongirl
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Hi
we've only been TTC for a few months. But either way, over the past year, heaps of people have said "why haven't you got pregnant yet?" or "gee when are you guys going to have a baby?" or "I don't get why you're not getting pregnant yet"...
now that we're TTC, it's really starting to get to me. I think it's an INCREDIBLY insensitive thing to say. Of COURSE I don't mind if a close friend or family member asks in a gentle way if we're thinking of it... but it's people who don't have the right to say it - and they aren't asking kindly. They're almost judging like it's a conscious choice - it seems like some people think that, the first time you do the BD with no protection - presto - a baby comes out!
Has anyone else experienced this? How do you reply without being rude, but in a way to make them get the point and mind their own business?
thanks
we've only been TTC for a few months. But either way, over the past year, heaps of people have said "why haven't you got pregnant yet?" or "gee when are you guys going to have a baby?" or "I don't get why you're not getting pregnant yet"...
now that we're TTC, it's really starting to get to me. I think it's an INCREDIBLY insensitive thing to say. Of COURSE I don't mind if a close friend or family member asks in a gentle way if we're thinking of it... but it's people who don't have the right to say it - and they aren't asking kindly. They're almost judging like it's a conscious choice - it seems like some people think that, the first time you do the BD with no protection - presto - a baby comes out!
Has anyone else experienced this? How do you reply without being rude, but in a way to make them get the point and mind their own business?
thanks