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Mum to Kirsty and Caidan
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Hi. I am looking for a bit of help/advice from those who have had a formal diagnosis of autism for their child.
I was wondering how long it took to actually get a diagnosis, and, were you taken seriously when you spoke of your concerns?
Caidan will be 18 months on Saturday. He is a very loving child with us and smiles for us, but will practically ignore other people. He can't say any words, he used to say mama and dada but stopped about 4 months ago. He won't clap his hands, wave goodbye or play with toys properly.He never brings anything over to us to show us. He hasn't reached ANY milestones within the 'normal' time, he ignores us when we shout on him, he 'headbangs' anything and everything, he has recently started hitting us and he gets really frustrated and kicks out all the time. He doesn't point to things, he doesn't understand when we ask him to show us where his teddy is or similar. He often goes into a 'trancelike' state, his sleep is disturbed. He concentrates on one thing, which at the moment is a plastic water bottle, he strokes his face with it and puts it up close to his eyes, almost like he is hypnotising himself with it. When he is sitting, he constantly shakes every part of his body. There are many other things as well, too many to mention.
He is currently under the care of the Early Development Specialist because of his late crawling and walking and she is coming to see him next week. She hasn't seen him for 5 months so she knows none of the above things.
Obviously we shall be telling her everything and she will see for herself, but am I likely to just be written off as an over anxious parent?
I know all is not right with Caidan, and from what I have read and from doing the CHAT test, he has many classic signs of autism.
Please, if you could share your experience of how easy/difficult it was to be taken seriously, I would be so grateful.
Sorry for the long post and thank you if you read it all!
xxx
I was wondering how long it took to actually get a diagnosis, and, were you taken seriously when you spoke of your concerns?
Caidan will be 18 months on Saturday. He is a very loving child with us and smiles for us, but will practically ignore other people. He can't say any words, he used to say mama and dada but stopped about 4 months ago. He won't clap his hands, wave goodbye or play with toys properly.He never brings anything over to us to show us. He hasn't reached ANY milestones within the 'normal' time, he ignores us when we shout on him, he 'headbangs' anything and everything, he has recently started hitting us and he gets really frustrated and kicks out all the time. He doesn't point to things, he doesn't understand when we ask him to show us where his teddy is or similar. He often goes into a 'trancelike' state, his sleep is disturbed. He concentrates on one thing, which at the moment is a plastic water bottle, he strokes his face with it and puts it up close to his eyes, almost like he is hypnotising himself with it. When he is sitting, he constantly shakes every part of his body. There are many other things as well, too many to mention.
He is currently under the care of the Early Development Specialist because of his late crawling and walking and she is coming to see him next week. She hasn't seen him for 5 months so she knows none of the above things.
Obviously we shall be telling her everything and she will see for herself, but am I likely to just be written off as an over anxious parent?
I know all is not right with Caidan, and from what I have read and from doing the CHAT test, he has many classic signs of autism.
Please, if you could share your experience of how easy/difficult it was to be taken seriously, I would be so grateful.
Sorry for the long post and thank you if you read it all!
xxx