Any hope?

[Mommyagain]

8dp5dt (FET) and getting BFN on FRER. I am terrified that it didn't work. I have been so positive and sure this was it for me but now I am losing hope. You read of so many early bfp's (5dt5dt or so) but not many late ones. Any hope for me? Does FET cause later implantation. Please Help! My beta is 2/22...

 

[Mommyagain]

Anyone? Desperately needing late BFP stories with FET. I am having a hard time accepting the fact that this really didn't work. I felt so good about this cycle and just knew it would work....feeling so low.

 

[heres_hoping]

I'm so sorry, I can't help but didn't want to read and run. All I can say is the not very helpful, you aren't out until AF arrives. Good luck x

 

[Mommyagain]

10dp5dt and still seeing bfn's. I have been on a googling rampage. I have read FET embies tend to implant later and then the betas tend to start off lower and rise slower. I don't know...seems like most get bfp's by 5dp5dt. But when I called to reschedule my beta my fs said 10dp was to early and even 11dp is a day earlier than what they would normally test on. So why does the google world offer no hope for me when the fs is telling me 10dp is to early to do a beta. So I am going tomorrow at 11dp5dt for my beta because I am almost out of progesterone and it is a lot of money and I don't want to buy it if I am not pregnant. I am terrified of that phone call tomorrow.

Does anyone know if body acne (chest/neck) is a pregnancy symptom. I NEVER get it and I have had it since about Tuesday. The only time I have had it in the past was last fall when I did a fresh Ivf cycle and it ended in a chemical. I had a bfp at 10dp3dt with my fresh cycle. My (.)(.) are super sore and I have had a few stabbing like pains in them. So I have reached the end of my rope but I have tied a knot and I am holding on for dear life.

 

[Molae06]

I really hope for you that you get amazing news tomorrow! I haven't been through IVF or FET yet, so I can't offer any advice from a personal experience. I hope to see good news for you!

 

[Mommyagain]

Negative beta today. Devastated.

 

[Molae06]

 

[Wallie]

I'm so sorry...

 

[Mommyagain]

Af finally came today so I can call and go for an u/s in two weeks and start the FET cycle again if I want. I think the transfer would be sometime at the beginning of April. I am debating. Part of me wants to tray again asap but another part feels numb to it all and a little jaded. We have two little embryos left and they are our last shot. When we started our IVF journey I felt so sure that we would come out of this with our baby but now I am starting to lose that confidence. I am going up and down from minute to minute on how I am feeling. I know that this deep sadness will get better because I have felt it before after ttc failures but right now the disappointment is still very raw.

 

[tdmonty]

I'm sorry to hear about your negative beta

 

[Wallie]

I've had many failed cycles, 4 fresh cycles and one FET. The last FET and fresh cycle resulted in chemical pregnanies so the clinic are now advising as a last go effort for me, that I should get an endometrial scratch the cycle before my next go. This gives the embies something to attach too.

As your beta was low, do you think your clinic would do this too or at least discuss it with you?

 

[Mommyagain]

I am sorry for what you have been through.

I don't think I have had that done. I am going to google it and read up some more on it and see if it is something we can do. Thanks for the suggestion.