As my family hasn't had the greatest reaction to my 2nd pregnancy (they hate my husband, long story) I doubt they will throw me a shower, and I don't really want one from them. I only have kept in touch with a friend or two from highschool and while they would GO to the shower, I don't think they'd be likely to throw me one. My DH's sister lives in another state and his mother (although supportive) isn't really the type to do so either. I would also feel really embarrassed if I had one, because only like two people would show up. I don't have many friends. Any other ladies not having a baby shower?