Hi,
Apologies for piggy backing on this, it's not number 5 but no four I am planning..... and would love to hear if anybody has any similar concerns or experiences.
I'm back on this site after having number 3 last year. Almost immediately I wanted to try for number 4, but have held myself back to make sure I am doing the right thing. (Number 3 is now 9 months)
My concerns are, having had two babies close together, 11 and 9 years ago, I remember how there is little time for sitting and enjoying, as you are so busy simply feeding and cleaning. For many years I thought I would never have any more but............
When I decided to start again with number 3, I told myself I wanted to really enjoy this one. Will number four be the same as number two and because of the sheer craziness of two small ones, stop me being able to enjoy it?