Just looking for someone to commiserate with/ share their experience. My attorney is filing on Monday. I'm asking for sole and legal custody and, if he wants visitation, supervised visitation and child support. The problem is his dad loves money. He's said a thousand times that if I do not ask for child support then he wants nothing to do with his son. No custody, no visitation. That would be his ideal situation. But I have a $3200 mortgage, daycare is $2000, and health insurance is $1600.... there's no way I can afford to keep things up this way. I was going to move, but then he won't agree for me to move! So he's not leaving me much choice but to ask for support. So now he's making my life hell. Saying he's going to go for joint custody and not giving me what I need to sign my now uninsured son and self up for health care at my job. He's only nice when he thinks he can manipulate me, but I see through it all now. I guess I'm just so worried about what he might get. He lets our son cry and won't tend to him. He doesn't know or want to know how to take care of him. I can't even leave him alone with my son for more than twenty minutes, and when I come home my poor son is screaming with a red face. I'm legitimately afraid for his safety.