We are ttc #5! We have decided this will be our last, we are trying for one more boy. As far as others opinions I use to really worry about but then I realized the only opinions that matter our mine, my Husbands and our kids. As long as they are happy, healthy, well cared for kids that's all that matters! I worked full time until the beginning of this year and now stay at home. Finances for us is about budgeting, we don't have a ton of extra money but we make it just fine with little luxuries here and there. For us the love and joy of our large family is well worth it! Kudos to you other large family mommies!