Blah11
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but why does it matter to you what i spend my money on![]()
Honestly, I think you are just looking for someone to bicker with as I have said quite clearly why I am asking. I am asking whether we have gone too far as a society with consumerism, the must have it being the most important thing. You quoted how much you spent and I said that I could never have imagined spending that.
The why does it matter to you attitude could be applied to anyone. Why do people feel that they have the right to question how people spend their HIP then or their benefits? Their money their choices?
because benefits come out of my taxes :s They dont work for them or earn them so it bothers me if they spend money that comes out of my hourly wage on crap.
+ I'm not picking a fight with you at all so stop being so paranoid.
Seriously, 1 comment isn't paranoid. You are using an unnecessarily blunt tone.
Regarding benefits, the same can be applied to many people. They claim WTC , CTC and help with nursery fees and they are from my taxes. If you feel that you can comment on those you feel that you subsidise then I can comment too as we don't claim anything. People are given a finite sum of money on benefits and they alone should decide how it is spent. It is degrading to expect vouchers etc to be give instead of cash.
But I didn't ask my question to have yet another benefits debate, I asked because I do care about consumerism and I wonder where this 'must have' attitude is going to get us in a few more years. I just doubt it will be making us any happier.
I like shopping, and I like nice things. It makes me happy I guess.
+ I get WTC for nursery fees and guess where they go? Oh yeah, to the nursery. I couldnt care less if they got paid directly.