anyone else choose not to go for anti natel classes and regreting it?

[pinktaffy]

anyone else choose not to go for anti natel classes and regreting it?
well at the time i didn't see the point in anti natal classes, i thought i had it all planed myself, and heard sometimes anti natal classes just scared u and are basically abit pointless. so i left it .thought i will be fine have ages to prepare myself that was around 24 weeks. well today i woke up in a panic thinking i have 1 week left till my due date im so not prepared mentally , and have no idea what to do in labor now im in a complete panic and keep getting really emotional..

dont get me wrong i really want my little girl to come im just scared abit now.

 

[Sam9kids]

Awwww hun thats natural (((hugs)))

Im sure that you will do just great.

I didnt have them with any of mine xx

 

[pinktaffy]

Awwww hun thats natural (((hugs)))

Im sure that you will do just great.

I didnt have them with any of mine xx

i just so panicing. and oh is going away tomoz for 2 nights and im thinking if i go into labor while he's gone. im gonna be alone and cluless what im doing. although my sister will be his replacment while he gone im still panicing.

did u just know what to do did it just come natral?

 

[Sam9kids]

You will be surprised at how you will cope and do what comes naturally.

If you want my advice for labour, its RELAX and BREATHE! xx

 

[poppy666]

I never went to any always thought if i went whatever i learnt would go out the window when i went into labour anyways on my 4th one now with an age gap of 17yrs and bricking it lol x

 

[pinktaffy]

You will be surprised at how you will cope and do what comes naturally.

If you want my advice for labour, its RELAX and BREATHE! xx

i will try im not the most easy going person when it comes to relaxing mind im nightmere .

hey cant be that bad can it u have done it 9 times.

how is jenson doing?

 

[EternalRose]

Hun, believe me you will be surprised at what you know..even just by coming on bnb

I went to two out of the three antental classes, well what a bloody waste of time that was!!!! I knew more than the midwife giving the lessons..and the hospital tour vid was like a sales pitch. Epic Fail.

If I knew what I know now I wouldnt have bothered. I think every mummy to be gets a bit scared the closer she gets to her due date, going to antenatal classes wont take that away and I would consider myself to be well read, and prepared. I have done natal hypnotherapy, read loads of books, e.t.c and I still feel scared sometimes. Your not alone hun x x

 

[pinktaffy]

I never went to any always thought if i went whatever i learnt would go out the window when i went into labour anyways on my 4th one now with an age gap of 17yrs and bricking it lol x

wow 17 years i bet so much has changed since u had your last baby not so much labor wise but just in general?. i think i will need 17 years till i have my next to forget how stressfull being pregnant is

 

[Sam9kids]

You will be surprised at how you will cope and do what comes naturally.

If you want my advice for labour, its RELAX and BREATHE! xx

i will try im not the most easy going person when it comes to relaxing mind im nightmere .

hey cant be that bad can it u have done it 9 times.

how is jenson doing?

you will be great xxx

Hes doing brilliantly, just needs to feed now! x

 

[aladrian]

I didn't go either (and this is my first) as I figured what's the point. I'm currently over due. Occassionally I wonder if I should have gone, but then I think I've always learned best by just jumping in & learning as I go & I've done enough reading/research on my own...what exactly could they tell me?

Figured it'd be best to try to do what experienced moms like Sam9kids suggest...just try to breathe & relax which I'm sure is much easier to say than do.

 

[poppy666]

LOL That gave me a giggle, my boys are 17, 18 n 19 so didnt scare me off that much, but your right everything has changed and i feel like im having my first all over again.... you'll be fine sweetie even us non first timers get scared too nearer the time

 

[lauram22]

Hi Hun, I have my last class 2moro and I honestly wouldn't worry. I can't speak 4 any1 else but your not missing out on much tbh, few useful pointers but hardly anything you can't know from coming on here n Reading a few books etc. I'm sure ul b just fine x