I am so tired of feeling like oh's mom. I'm sick to death of being the responsible, sensible one. Tired of trying to guide him in the right way and doing everything for him just to get no appreciation back let alone trying to raise my daughter in the right way too. Oh has decided he wants to work 7 days a week to earn lots of money (even though he's the one that blows it all) and goes to the gym 3 times a week after work and then I work 3 nights a week. As you can imagine I am looking after lo from 7am til 8pm when she goes to bed. Then the other 3 days I'm looking after lo doing tea for oh and me, feeding lo and getting her ready for bed til he gets back ten minutes before I have to leave for my shifts. I do housework every day I don't ask him to lift a finger cuz he now wants to do 7 days a week. He's hardly here and then when he comes back on either the Friday or the Sunday he wants to go out and drink with friends or his brother. I feel overwhelmed and feel like its pushing me the wrong way. I'm 22 and all I wanna do right now is act like someone withh no responsibilities. Dying for freedom, girly time with my best friends and drink. I know that sounds bad. I'm just sick of doing everything for everyone without any freedom right now. I don't do this obviously, I love my lg more than anything and will always be here looking after her full time. But him randomly deciding he wants to do 7 days a week without a break for either of us is hard. And all he cares about is how hard it is on him rather than me looking after lo 24/7 doing ansolutely everything around the house and then working 3 nights a week. Sorry ladies. Just don't really know where the boundaries lie I guess.