Anyone else never having sex again!?

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Well, at least for a good couple of months more!

Just wondering if anyone else has completely lost their drive, or just me?

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You're definitely not alone on that one! Been ages since we DTD & I feel like I've forgotten how to get in the mood!
 
Phew! Glad to know I'm not the only one out there! I've probably actually forgotten how to actually DTD let alone get in the mood :haha:
 
Completely gone off sex... even considering buying horny goats weed to boost me sex drive :haha: x
 
Nope i am 13 weeks pp and completely not interested. Poor oh :)
 
It's good to know there are more people out there!

I thought maybe I was destined to become a nun!
 
im 16 wks PP and cant be arsed....not interested, id much rather have a cuddle...poor OH, he got it for a whole week when i was trying to conceive, i fell pregnant on first try so then he didn't get it again until i wanted the little man (my baby..lol) out....coz i heard sex could start labour..it didn't of course...lol...

This is a real issue for me....my other half is really good looking (i think), and i love him to bits...but sex...i cant be bothered, not interested, not horny and i haven't been for a long long time....i worry about this alot, it was there before the baby and its still here now...i want to be a rampant sex pest but i am not unfortunately, i so wish i was...my fantasy is id like mine and my other halfs sex life to be like glen close and Michael douglas in fatal attraction...you know the kitchen counter scene.....lol...but it is not....

I get so jealous of women who have high sex drives and i wonder what the hell is wrong with me....i think i have issues???? or mabey coz im overweight? or mabey this just happens when youve been with the same guy for 7 years and you can have sex when you want it...????? who knows...??? i know when i met him i was a horny woman, but now i just cant be bothered....not even with myself (if you get my drift).

Does anyone else get this....absolutely no sex drive????? i worry my other half will leave me in the end coz he is rampant for it and i knock him back most times...poor love!!! he doesn't go on about it but i know that it bothers him alot...were only 35....xx
 
My baby's almost a year old and I still can't be arsed!!
I have virtually no sex drive whatsoever. I think the fear of getting pregnant again puts me off most of the time!!
 
same here!, im not in the mood,no drive,just not nterested,also its sore for me which doesnt help,i really dont like being fondled either,id rather a cuddle and sleep!
 
I think this post has just saved my sanity. I had my little boy 15 weeks ago via emcs after 4 days of induction. I'm not sure whether it's because I still feel traumatised by the experience, because I have no feeling in my stomach, my stomach hangs 'apron' style or just because I'm absolutely knackered BUT I just have no desire to dtd. I feel awful for my OH and I'm unsure what to do about it. It's really getting me down :(

I'm glad I'm not the only one...is there hope for a revival ???
 
ooo glad im not the only one.. i hate it i feel so mean.. i want too but really cannot be bothered.. :( sad times...
 
Sometimes I avoid eye contact in case he gets the wrong idea...
 
I wish I could have sex :( My sex drive is really high - I would have it every night if I could! But needing more surgery for my un healed 4th degree tear means It is going to be another 12 weeks or so before I can attempt it!
 
Baby is almost 7 months, and I would be totally fine without it. I don't know why it is so different from the last babies. I think it is because I am having bad PPD. Also I had a tear by my clitoris that had to be stitched so I think that might have caused an issue. I have also lost a lot of weight which makes for lots of lose skin and not wanting hubby to see me. I hope it gets better. Poor hubby!
 
Neither of us could be bothered for a good 6 months! It wasn't so much total lack of sex drive, but rather a preference for sleep...
 
I came here searching for a thread like this. So glad im not the only one. I just cant face it, have no desire, and tho i have no pressure from DH i feel so bad. I cringe if he touches me incase he gets the wrong idea. I love him loads, but i do think its affecting our relationship. :(
 

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