CordeliaJ
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I want my DH there, but under NO CIRCUMSTANCES can he look. He says he won't, and I trust him. Let's face it, if you don't want him to look, and he does, you will probably shout bloody murder at him while you're in labour, haha. I'm sure he won't if you asked him not to.
Also, just as an aside for those saying "he's seen it all before" - I've heard it likened to 'watching your favourite restaurant burn down', by other men. Now while yeah he would probably get past it just fine, I don't think I want our sex life ruined by images of birth. The two things may be intimately related, but they don't have to be visually related too. It's all just personal preference, nothing wrong with wanting to keep the magic. x
Also, just as an aside for those saying "he's seen it all before" - I've heard it likened to 'watching your favourite restaurant burn down', by other men. Now while yeah he would probably get past it just fine, I don't think I want our sex life ruined by images of birth. The two things may be intimately related, but they don't have to be visually related too. It's all just personal preference, nothing wrong with wanting to keep the magic. x