Anyone else now trying again STRAIGHT after a mc? NTNP?

[Clobo]

Hi

Yes it's nice to chat to you, I wasn't on here much for a snails but found a few nice threads including this one!!

Yes bleeding is almost gone now after 12 days! I can't wait to get started, I think I'm heading for a fall though as I'm kinda assuming it will happen very soon again! Well we can hope I suppose!!

Are you trying anything new now? Xxx

 

[lintu]

hi ladies,

Just thought I would let u know there is light at the end of the tunnel.

I had a MMC in Jan, i was a mess. my next AF took 6 weeks, the longest of my life, it lasted 8 days. I was then a week late ovulating and had a 35 day cycle again with an 8 day bleed, im CD29 today and got my this morning.

I know how you are all feeling iv been on the rollercoaster and had only said to my DH this morning, lets forget about TTC for the summer give us both a break. I was going to to a detox diet but thought i better check first and bam.

What I would say, forget all your pregnancy symptoms from last time, cos mine have been nothing like my last pregnancy, given how it ended that can only be a good thing xxxx

 

[FoleysWifey]

I am started as soon as my bleeding is over!!! Should be soon, it has tapered down some. Good luck everyone!!

 

[Clobo]

Congratulations Lintu its so good to har a success story, wishing you lots of stickiness for your new bean. I hope I only have to wait 6 weeks for my first AF, with my irregular cycles who knows when it will be! Im really happy for you xxx

Hi Foley, hope you can start soon then, we are starting next week, just got some red cm now so im almost there!! Good luck!!

xxx

 

[fallenangel11]

Hi ladies,

I just thought I'd jump in for a quick chat.
I just found out abut my MMC. We went in for our 12 week scan and found no heartbeat. Our baby passed on at only 8wks and 2 days. I had my D&C at 13 weeks (3 days ago).

My Dr did say we can start TTC straight away, but it is best to wait one cycle. What does everyone else think??
I think I might wait til my first AF- getting my body in shape again, eating healthy, keeping rested etc.

 

[lintu]

The only resin they say to wait is to make it easier to date any potential pregnancy.

Sorry for your loss Hun, the same happened to me, I took the view of that first cycle NTNP if my body was ready it would happen, i then followed the SMEP after that, with a few extra days thrown in for good measure. good luck xxxx

 

[Clobo]

Hi fallen,

I'm so sorry for your loss, and to find out so late must have been awful My doctor told me the same, wait one cycle as you mc isn't actually a real period, but why not NTNP untill then? I think that's what most if us on this thread are doing! Give it a go and see, otherwise good plan with the health regime, excellent thing to do!!

I was doing really well till we had Indian and maltesars last night for tea, oops!!!

Big hugs ladies xxx

 

[firsttimer1]

Hello all,

sorry not been on here this weekend - had lots of wedding meetings and my ''grown up'' hen do last night was great fun. Got main one next weekend with pals - cant wait!


Cloey - glad to hear ur bleeding is nearly done hun! Thats good Im planning to bed tonight for third time (tmi heehee) so looking forward to that haha!

Lintu - wicked hearing a positive story, CONGRATULATIONS! fab news

Fallen - only you can judge when your ready emotionally. If you want to wiat then wait i think physically its whenever you feel fine

MrsW - hope your well!

xXx

 

[Mummy1988]

Just thought id pop a message on this thread!

i m/c at 5 weeks 4 day on April 19th and i bled for 6 days and started trying straight away and im now having a few symptoms sore boobs, tiredness ect but ive had one BFN i just dont know when next to test because i dont know how to work out when i should actually b getting my af should i go from my last normal period back in march or should i go from the bleeding and the m/c ?

cheers lou

 

[lauraemily17]

Hi Ladies

I have miscarried my first this weekend. Still feeling emotional about it but my DH and I are very keen to start TTC again immediately. We've bought more sticks for my clear blue fertility monitor, pre seed and vitamins! Part of me feels like I shouldn't be making plans for my next so soon but on the other hand it's giving me something to look forward to.

I've been quite lucky (if that's the right word) in the sense my body has miscarried quickly. I started bleeding Saturday lunch time, I had a scan yesterday and my uterus lining was completely clear anything left was by my cervix waiting to come out, most of which did last night. My cramps have completly gone and my bleeding is just like a period now, not even a particualry heavy one.

I've heard fertility can increase for a few months after a mc so hoping to make the most of it. I can't wait to be pregnant again, it was only for a few weeks but I loved every second of it, even the tiredness and slight nausea (didn't get far enough for full on ms!)

Sorry for tmi but it feels theraputic to put my thoughts down in writing and I can't really share this much detail with family.

I hope to see some bfp's on here soon. xx

 

[kail]

I've miscarried twice in one year, but we're NTNP. I'm trying to keep myself from going all out and changing to TTC, but it seems like my desire to have a child has increased greatly with every disappointment. Congrats Lintu! There is definitely hope. My condolences fallen and big hugs to you. Start again when you feel ready. You'll know.

 

[Clobo]

Hi

Kail, blimey, i cant imagine going through this more than once, I really hope you have paid more than your dues now and can go on to carry a healthy baby did they find out why you miscarried?? Are you getting help??

Laura, we all completelty understand here how you feel, we all want to get on with trying again too. I loved it too, I cant wait to feel it again! Im sorry you had to go through this but it will make us stronger and yes hopefully you are right about being more fertile at the moment!!

Mummy1988, sorry for your loss also, it happens so much doesnt it, its awful. I would count the first day of your mc bleeding as cd1 for now, although from what I have read i wouldnt excpect this cycle to be a normal one at all, it could take weeks for your body to realise what is happening and ovulate again. Do you temp or use OPKs or anything and know that you definitely already ovulated?? Hopefully it wont be long, maybe give it a few days and then test again.

As for me, bleeding has totally stopped now ... yay!! Going to try and get some tonight!! Knowing my luck he will be too tired!!!!

xxxx

 

[firsttimer1]

MUMMY1988 - your prb best to go from your MC. the ting i, i think most people gettheir AF 4-6 weeks after the MC... but some people take longer... so bit of a guessing game? Good luck to you tho! Hope u get that BFP!!!

lauraemily - welcome to this thread hun but so sorry for your loss. We all know how hard it is but glad it seems to have gone physically ok for you and that ur both ready to try again. fingers are crossed for you and this cycle Im now.... mmmm... about CD18 I guess - if we all count MC as day 1. Trying to bed when can but defo not Ov'd before now... think there is a chance i am now tho.... so going to keep extra special eye on things! defo not testing until after my wedding and honeymoon tho - so wont be testing until about mid june. Feels like AGES away!

 

[firsttimer1]

Hi

Kail, blimey, i cant imagine going through this more than once, I really hope you have paid more than your dues now and can go on to carry a healthy baby did they find out why you miscarried?? Are you getting help??

Laura, we all completelty understand here how you feel, we all want to get on with trying again too. I loved it too, I cant wait to feel it again! Im sorry you had to go through this but it will make us stronger and yes hopefully you are right about being more fertile at the moment!!

Mummy1988, sorry for your loss also, it happens so much doesnt it, its awful. I would count the first day of your mc bleeding as cd1 for now, although from what I have read i wouldnt excpect this cycle to be a normal one at all, it could take weeks for your body to realise what is happening and ovulate again. Do you temp or use OPKs or anything and know that you definitely already ovulated?? Hopefully it wont be long, maybe give it a few days and then test again.

As for me, bleeding has totally stopped now ... yay!! Going to try and get some tonight!! Knowing my luck he will be too tired!!!!

xxxx

Goodluck tonight with the LOL - give him a few good beers and sweeten him up we were meant to last night but i was zonked. I think i may be either OVing now or about to - so we are 100% doing it tonight!!! Weird thing is.... if i had not of MC'D, and was still having periods habing not of got pregnant - i would be Oving now.... maybe there is somehting in that - maybe not. who knows!!! xxx

 

[HopefulxMommy]

I had a natural MC 9 days ago and stopped bleeding 2 days ago. Got my negative urine preg test today.

We BD last night for first time in AGES

So - after much research etc i really cant see any reason why waiting for one AF is beneficial? I didnt have a D&C so my lining is still ok, i feel physicaly and mentally ready.... so other than for dating purposes i think im gonna go for it?

We marry in 4 weeks so i think were going to NTNP - im not going to check OV dates, or chart anything... and then im not going to do a preg test or anything (as after wedding we are on honeymoon).. and as i dont know when AF is due i wont know anyway!

My lovely OH says it up to me.

so is anyone else doing the same? not waiting for one AF? would be nice not to be alone in my decision lol

My DH and I are not waiting I dont know when I am supposed to ov but I told DH it is time to BDing like rabbits starting today

 

[firsttimer1]

Good luck hopeful mummy! make sure u post on this thread when u get a BFP!

 

[HopefulxMommy]

Good luck hopeful mummy! make sure u post on this thread when u get a BFP!

Thank you I will def update on this thread. I am so nervous that my body isnt ready. But I went to the Dr thursday and she told me that as long as the HCG was less than 2% than I am ok to start and she called me today and told me that it was so I am ready!

 

[justwaiting]

Can i join you ladies I mmc for the second time on the 24th of April so 3 weeks ago, I stopped bleeding a few days after. DH and I are going the nTNP, so no opk's or anything just doing the deed fairly regularly, DH said he didn't want to try again for a while after this time but he has made no attempt to put a condom on so and from what he's said he wants to not think about it let nature take it's course but not actively or conciously try for a little while. we have been sent for a bunch of tests and see a fertility specialist in a few weeks. So we'll see how we go.
I feel like I'm ovulating at the moment pains in my sides and ewcm and just plain frisky so am bd a bit more this week. I'm trying not to think about it and haven't peed on a stick yet so. I would really like to fall straight away but am not getting my hopes up.

i'm so sorry we are all here together under these circumstances but positivity in numbers and good people to talk to can only make this easier.
Congrats on the BFP"S too

 

[lauraemily17]

I'm so sorry you've gone through this a second time.

It's great having each other for support. Hopefully we'll all have some good news in the not too distant future.

 

[Garnet]

Well I stop bleeding and we are going to try again. I looked at my calendar from my last MC and I O'd 23 days after my baby passed. Hopefully we can catch the egg. I'm am going to see a specialist once my referral goes through. Hopefully I'm pregnant when I see her. I can get pregnant just carrying past 2 mts is the problem...