Anyone else undecided on finding out sex?

LoraLoo

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Or anybody that was, what swayed you either way?

I feel like i have a little angel on one shoulder whispering to stay team yellow, and a little devil on the other telling me to find out.

I just cant decide what to do :blush: x
 
im with you i dont know what to do i think it would be nice to have a surprise but on the other hand theres not a lot of clothes you can buy if you dont know all my family want me to find out xx
 
Ive got my scan on wednesday and I have no idea what to do!!!!
 
See clothes dont bother me as i love newborns in white, and no doubt he/she will get bought pressies, and i can buy clothes when baby arrives.

I have found out the sex with all mine apart from Eve, i quite like that she was my own suprise and that being team yellow is unique to her pregnancy, would somehow feel i was betraying her if i had a suprise again. But on the other hand, its my last baby, we'd both quite like a suprise, knowing the sex wouldnt make my life any easier and i already have a nice mix of boy/girls :shrug:

But still, not of this makes my decision any easier :dohh: lol x
 
sorry that you lost eve she is beautiful can i ask what happened dont if it will upset you i dont think it will betray her hun do what you feel on the day do you have an inkling what sex baby is xx
 
sorry that you lost eve she is beautiful can i ask what happened dont if it will upset you i dont think it will betray her hun do what you feel on the day do you have an inkling what sex baby is xx

I think its a boy. No i dont mind anyone asking, we lost her suddenly to Meningococcal septicaemia, we woke up and she had died in her moses basket :nope: nobody knew how poorly she was x
 
i think mines another boy too im so sorry i cant imagine what pain you went through it must of been a devasting time for all of you xx
 
i think mines another boy too im so sorry i cant imagine what pain you went through it must of been a devasting time for all of you xx

It was, it still is xx
 
LoraLoo

I don't think you are betraying Eve at all. I think you should do whatever you feel is right. (it sounds like you are leaning toward waiting, though)

My husband and I were struggling with whether or not to find out the sex as well. (We never got the chance to find out last time) We have also been getting allot of pressure from our families and friends to find out the sex. We decided to wait. (if we can handle it and don't cave) Honestly what swayed me the most was that everyone else seems to think it's so important to know "right away" and us waiting will annoy them :haha: (having as much fun with this pregnancy as possible)
 
I found out with my DS because he was my 1st and I absolutely could not WAIT lol...but with my DD, I chose not to and it was just absolutely amazing to me that one minute you're pushing and the next minute you get that news "It's a ____!!!" I will definitely stay team yellow for my next one, I just love it :D
 
See clothes dont bother me as i love newborns in white, and no doubt he/she will get bought pressies, and i can buy clothes when baby arrives.

I have found out the sex with all mine apart from Eve, i quite like that she was my own suprise and that being team yellow is unique to her pregnancy, would somehow feel i was betraying her if i had a suprise again. But on the other hand, its my last baby, we'd both quite like a suprise, knowing the sex wouldnt make my life any easier and i already have a nice mix of boy/girls :shrug:

But still, not of this makes my decision any easier :dohh: lol x

I was the opposite as you with this baby. I never found out with any and this will also be my last. I really wanted to experience what it was like to know the gender. For shopping or what I expected wasn't important it was just that I knew this was my last and didn't want to have any regrets. Anyway we found out for the first time and I am so happy I did. I don't think you would be betraying your daughter if you waited, its your choice and you need to do what is right for you. If this is your last you don't want to have any regrets so follow your heart!!
 

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